Thursday, October 30, 2008

Ten Tips To Beat Procrastination


M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Visualize the outcome. Picture the benefits of completing your task. Imagine how good you'll feel once it's done.


* Turn off the TV and Internet. These are two of the greatest time-wasters. Unplug them until you've finished your task.


* Just do it for 10 minutes. It's usually far easier to start something you know will only go on for 10 minutes. Then, Once you've started it,you'll tend to work on for longer.


* Let go of perfectionism. If you're putting off starting a job because you want to get it perfect, set aside this goal and forge ahead as if your aim is to do it imperfectly. You can always improve it later.


* Constant reminders. Set a timer to go off, say, every hour as you're working, so you can stay aware of how fast time is passing.


* Make it fun. Do the most(or least painful) part of the task first. This will get you into the swing of it.


* Catch yourself procrastinating. Watch for the moment when you first put off a task. If you can resist that first impulse to delay, it's far easier trying to fight it later. Resisting procrastination can also become a habit.


* Do you secretly like procrastinating? Are you addicted to the rush of completing a task just in time?If you are,try giving yourself just a little bit more time by creating your own deadline, which is earlier than the real one,so that you have a margin of safety. Get into the habit of starting a project as early as you can, rather than as late you dare.


* Accept mistakes as inevitable. Fear of making a mistake can deter you from making a start on a new task. Remind yourself that mistakes are a natural , unavoidable part of life that could ultimately teach you how to do something better.


* Should you really be doing the task? Sometimes procrastination can be a subconscious sign that you want to avoid the activity altogether(beyond sheer laziness). Re-assess whether you really want or need to perform the task.


Friday, October 17, 2008

Twelve Tips To Be Good Communicators


M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer


*Good communicators are self-confident people who have good self-esteem.


*Good communicators are people who believe they are worth being listened to.


*Good communicators are people who like to hear the views and opinions of others.


*Good communicators are able to both take and give criticism without feeling hurt.


*Good communicators are assertive people who are able to express themselves without getting angry.


*Good communicators are people who encourage others to express their feelings .

* Good communictors are people who have the ability to understand others.


* Good communicators plan how to interact with the other persons.


* Good communicators have a greater awareness of other people.


* Good communicators are more sensitive towards their emotions and attitudes.


* Good communicators carefully observe other people.


* Good communicators have a greater self-Knowledge.

Twelve Tips to Be Good Listeners


M.M.M.Ahmed,Editor,Proactive Personality Developer


* Stop what you are doing and listen. Don’t be tempted to do two things at once.


* Turn off all negative thoughts you have about the speaker.


* Actively listen for ideas.


* Do not interrupt.


* Start listening with the first word and then listen intently.


* Think at the speed they are talking, don't jump ahead.


* Find an area of interest.


* Judge the content and not the delivery.


* Resist distractions if you possibly can.


* Suspend your judgment and keep an open mind.


* Listening involves the ability to understand what is being said.


* Listening is an essential part of being a good communicator.

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Six Symptoms Of Cancer

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* A lump, or a sore which does not heal, including one in the mouth.

* A mole which changes in shape,size or colour.

* Any abnormal bleeding.

* A persistent cough or hoarseness.

* Changes in bowel movements.

* Any unexplained weight loss

Nine Symptoms Of Diabetes

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Needing to pass water often, particularly at night.

* Being thirsty most of the time, or hungry.

* Unexpectedly losing weight.

* Lacking energy, feeling tired and drowsy.

* Having blurred vision.

* Tingling or numbness in legs, feet or fingers.

* Recurring skin. gum and/or urinary tract infections.

* Slow- healing cuts and bruises

* Frequent itching of skin and/ or genitals

Friday, October 3, 2008

Avoid Negative Body Language Signals
















M.M.M.Ahmed,Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Nervous mannerisms,nail biting, finger and foot tapping, playing with hair, adjusting clothing, smoothing eyebrows.

* Playing with objects and personal effects like rings and pencils indicates tension.

* Pointing at people, waving your fist, thumping the table indicates aggression and tension.

* Touching the face indicates negative emotions like guilt,self doubt irritation.

* Touching the chin and mouth indicates doubt,reluctance to speak or accept what is being said.

* Touching the nose indicates lying.

* Touching the eye indicates not liking what you are seeing.

* Touching the ears indicates not liking what you are hearing