Top Secrets Of World's Successful People

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer



Career

* Successful people are resultaholic not workaholic.

* They think and talk strategically.

* They display leadership at every opportunity.

* They are a demonstrable and unselfish team player.

* They seek to embrace and utilise new technology.


Health

* Successful people pursue a healthy diet.

* They regard exercise as important.

* They reject smoking, drug and alcohol.

* They get away for holidays and switch off.

* They have a weekly work-free day


Relationships

* Successful people always say thank you promptly.

* They make other people feel good and appreciated.

* They demonstrably listen to and seek to understand people's viewpoint.

* They resolve differences rather than ignore them.

* They give gifts which show thoughtfulness.

Personal Finances

* Successful people get on the property ladder.

* They manage debt effectively.

* They save and invest early in life and pensions

* They consider charitable giving.

* They write a will.

Mental Attitudes

* Successful people think positively and always see a half-full glass not a half- empty one.

* They never worry over things that can't be changed.

* They develop a healthy self- esteem, self- image and self- confidence.

* They believe their goals will be achieved and wholeheartedly commit to them.

* They maintain self control whatever the situation.

Image and Appearance

* Successful people dress to reflect and help to achieve their future aspirations.

* They are effective public speakers.

* They greet people warmly and display poise.

* They eliminate irritating habits.

* They develop their charisma.

Entrepreneurs

* Successful people devote time to develop ideas for starring a business

* They swim with the tide of opportunity , not against it.

* They turn infrastructure needs arising from new technology into business opportunities, e.g website design.

* They research the market place and ideas rigorously.

* They reward people generously for achieving demanding goals.

Secrets of The World’s Greatest Billionaire Entrepreneurs Google Partners-Sergey Brin and Larry page

M.M.M Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Google is the prototype of a successful 21st century company.
* Google uses technology in new ways to make information universally accessible, promotes a corporate culture that encourages creativity among its employees and developing the largest corporate foundation in the United States.
* Google partners transformed their vision of a better internet search engine into a business with about 16 billion dollars in annual revenue.
* Google partners live modest lives, despite each having a net worth in excess of 15.9 billion dollars.
* Google is at the forefront of technology through relentless research and development investments and imaginative partnerships with organizations such as NASA.
* What started out as a university research project conducted by Sergey brin and Larry page has ended up revolutionizing the world we live in.
* These incredible entrepreneurs’ drive and determination have allowed them to create one of today’s’ most powerful companies.
* Google partners – Sergey Brin and Larry page are
Honest-Happy-Hardworking-Humorous-Hale-Healthy-Humble-Helpful-Hopeful-Handsome-Honourable and Head-Hunters to find people with multi skills, creativity, innovation, devotion, dedication, determination and drive to work for Google- One of the most powerful companies of the world
* Google does not run a search engine, it organizes the world's information.

Tips For Body Language During Interview

M.M.M Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Actions speak louder than words. Words - 7%, Voice – 38%, Body language –55% Postures, Gestures, Expressions, Movements and voice are important during interview.
* The first five seconds (First Impression) and the last five seconds (last Impression) are crucial to impress the interviewers.
* A smile with enthusiasm is the best way to relieve the tension and break the ice.
Positive Body Language:-
* Good eye-contact and handshake with single hand.
* Leaning forward slightly in your chair.
* Tilting your head.
* Open-lipped smiling.
* Open hands with palms visible.
* Keeping your chin up.
* Eye-contact conveys confidence, trust and attention.
* Eye-contact establishes a rapport with the interviewer.
* Eye-contact shows interest.
* Mirroring is imitating someone else’s positive body language not negative body language. People like people like themselves. Never ever mirror the bad habits of others.
Negative Body Language:-
* Crossing your arms or legs.
* Looking down when speaking.
* Not making eye-contact.
* Pointing your finger when making a point.
* Looking at your interviewer from underneath your eyebrows.
* Rubbing your eyes.
* Touching nose or face.
* Rubbing the back of the neck.
* Clearing your throat.
* Biting pens or other objects.
* Biting your finger nails.
* Biting your lips.
* Pinching your skin.
* Twiddling your thumbs.
* Gritting your teeth.
* Tongue clicking.
* Running your tongue along the front of your teeth.
* Frowning.

12 Tips To Improve IQ

M.M.M Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Make an effort to meet new people.

* Learn a new language.

* Learn to draw and paint.

* Learn how to work all the new technologies in your house properly.

* Try doing things with your other hand.

* Try doing things in the dark.

* Invent new words.

* Write a new ending for a well-known story or some new stanzas for a well-known poem.

* Be creative - Try to think in new and original ways.

* Cultivate curiosity.

* Be open to new ideas.

* Don't insist on doing things the way you always did them.

* Take a holiday somewhere you have never been before.

Physically Active And Mentally Alert Child

M.M.M Ahmed,Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* He or She has a healthy heart.

* He or she develops strong bones.

* He or she stays a healthy weight.

* He or she relaxes and copes with stress.

* He or she enjoys mixing with others.

* He or she feels a sense of achievement.

* He or she concentrates better in office.

* He or she gains more confidence.

* He or she has higher self-esteem.

* He or she participates in different types of activities.

* He or she has healthy active lifestyle,

* He or she has physical competence.

12 Tips To Be Happy At Work

M.M.M Ahmed,Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Happiness is the purpose of life and the whole aim of human existence.

* Be proactive to get what you want out of your work for career satisfaction.

* Update your professional profile by learning latest technology and taking personality development courses regularly for continuous progress.

* Work smarter rather than harder with SMART goal.

S-Specific, M-Measurable, A-Achievable, R-Result-Oriented, T-Time-bound.

* Smile means strive to motivate, inspire, lead and energize.

* Always remember KISS-Keep it Short And Simple.

* Optimism and kindness at work is a winning combination and the greatest wisdom.

*50 percent of your work satisfaction depends on your good relationship with your boss, 25 percent of your work satisfaction depends on your good relationship with your colleagues and remaining 25 percent of your work satisfaction depends on your work.

* There is no problem in your work only an opportunity to explore.

* If you don’t like anybody in your work place no problem, but still you have to work with him or her.

* Work-life balance-Managing your life can be just as demanding as managing your job.

* Measure your success in the results you achieved not the hours you have worked.

Factors Which Make You Unhappy At Work

* The unreasonable boss.

* The lack of opportunities for creativity.

* The irritating colleague.

* The lack of career progression.

* The less salary.

* The more working hours.

* The commute.

25 Un-popular people of the world

M.M.M Ahmed,Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

*Apologetic people feel sorry for them and others all the time.

*Biased people are closed minded, prejudiced, and making sweeping assumptions.

*Blamers are blaming other people and not taking responsibility for their own actions.

*Boring people are digressers, ramblers, tedious, unfocussed, burblers and wafflers.

*Bullies are harassing, intimidating, threatening, dictatorial, aggressive and bossy.

*Change-resistant people are conservative, inflexible, risk-averse, unadventurous.

*Cold People are unaffectionate, unemotional, un-empathetic, uninvolved and brutal.

*Difficult People are contrary, disagreeable and disharmonious.

*Embarrassed people are scared to speak up, self-deprecating, self-effacing, shy.

*Gossipy People are cliquey and rumour-mongers.

*Hostile People are trouble-makers, uncooperative, unforgiving, unfriendly, grudging.
*Last-minuters leave things until the very last moment.

*Late People are unpunctual, unreliable and consistently miss deadlines.

*Loners keep themselves to themselves and not be obvious team players.

*Messy people are disorganized and untidy.

*Moody people are temperamental, unpredictable and unreliable.

*Negative people are but-ters, dampeners, pessimists and wet blankets.

*Phobic People are fearful, frightened, scared, terrified of presenting in public.

*Selfish people are inconsiderate, self-centered and self-obsessed.

*Unenthusiatic People are low on ambition, drive, excitement, inspiration, passion.

*Unmotivated People need telling every single thing to do, disengaged, uninterested.

*U-turners are backtrackers and mind-changers.

*Workaholics work very hard and find it difficult to stop working and do other things.

*Yes People agree with everything and have no real opinions of their own.

Foods That Are Killing You Silently

M.M.M Ahmed,Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

Harmful Effects of Sugar:-
* Sugar effects heart.* Sugar robs the body of vitamin-B.* Sugar depletes energy.

* Sugar is a stimulant and a stress food.* Sugar causes calcium loss from the body leading to bone decay.* Excess sugar affects pancreas and causes diabetes.

* Sugar causes tooth decay.* Sugar increases triglyceride.* Sugar increases weight.

* Sugar leads to problems like acidity, gas and indigestion.* Sugar increases the problem of constipation by not helping in bowel movements.* Sugar increases blood pressure.

Harmful Effects Of Excess Salt:-
* Excess salt increases blood pressure. * Salt is a stimulant and a stress food.

* Eating too much salt can pull calcium from the bones making them weak.

* Excess salts puts a heavy burden on kidneys.* Excess salt increases weight.

* Excess salt hardens the arteries.* Deficiency of organic sodium in table salt results in bronchial and lung problems.

Harmful Effects Of Caffeine:-
* Caffeine is present in tea, coffee, cola drinks, dark chocolates and pain killers.

* Caffeine has temporary benefits but permanent harmful effects.

* Caffeine drains energy.* Caffeine increases urine output.* Caffeine raises cholesterol.

* Caffeine causes calcium loss.* Caffeine harms breast- fed infants and pregnancy.

* Caffeine increases acidity.* Caffeine causes increased and irregular heart-beat.

* Caffeine increases blood pressure.* Caffeine causes sleep disturbance.

* Caffeine causes head-ache, irritability and anxiety.* Caffeine affects kidney and liver.

* Caffeine raises blood sugar and aggravates diabetes.

Harmful Effects Of Refined Cereals:-
* White flour or refined flour or maida and polished rice (very white) are the two most widely used refined cereals in our day to day food.

* Suffering from digestive disorders, tiredness, poor eye-sight, heart trouble and skin diseases.* fatigue and depletion of energy.* Weakening of bones leading to osteoporosis.

* Lack of fiber leading to constipation. * Increase in blood sugar leading to diabetes.

Note:-Fried, spicy and processed food to be avoided. Grilled, baked, natural food and zero oil or minimum oil to be used for good health. Brown rice, brown flour and green tea are better than white rice, white flour and black tea.

WAKE UP AND DON’T KILL YOURSELF!!!
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Are You A Genius ?

M.M.M Ahmed,Editor,Proactive Personality Developer
The Society consists of various categories of people in the following ratio.

* Block heads----- 2%

* Idiots----- 2.5%

* Stupids----- 7%

* Dull-heads----- 10%

* Average people---- 48%

* People above average----- 18%

*Intelligent----- 11%

*Genius----- 1.5%


As Per Einstein Genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration.

“Quotations On Happy Married Life”

* There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage.

* Married couples who love each other tell each other a thousand things without talking.

* Marriage is the most natural state of a person and the state in which you will find solid happiness.

* The great secret of a successful marriage is to treat all disasters as incidents and none of the incidents as disasters.

* The goal in marriage is not to think alike but to think together.

* It is not a lack of love but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.

* You don’t marry someone you can live with; you marry the person who you cannot live without.

* Never let problems to be solved become more important than a person to be loved.

* In a great romance, each person plays a part the other really likes.

* Tenderness and kindness are not signs of weakness and despair, but manifestations of strengths and resolutions.

* A tree is known by its fruit; A persons by his deeds. A good deed is never lost; He who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness gathers love.

* Where there is great love, there are always miracles.

* Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate but through being the right mate.

* Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get-Only with what you are expecting to give – which is everything.

* What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are but how you deal with incompatibility.

* A successful marriage requires falling in love many times always with the same person.

* Love is a promise; Love is a souvenir, once given never forgotten, never let it disappear.

* Marriages are made in heaven and consummated on earth.

* There is only one happiness in life to love and be loved.

* In arithmetic of love one plus one equals everything and two minus one equals nothing.

* Actually a marriage in which no quarreling at all takes place may well be one that is dead or dying from emotional under nourishment.If you care,you probably fight.

* We have got this gift of love but love is like a precious plant. You just can’t accept it and live in the cupboard or just think it is going to get on by itself. You have got to keep watering it, really look after it and nurture it.

Is TV An Idiot Box ?

Father stabs son to death over IPL cricket match
A father asked his son to switch off the TV as he wanted to rest. Son refused to do so. Furious father shouted, warned and stabbed his son on the chest to death.

* Watching TV causes obesity, diabetes and sleeplessness.

* TV viewing is directly linked with mindless eating as per studies done by the Stanford university school of medicine, California.

* When children watch TV they snack more often on junk food – Popcorn, Chips, Ice-cream, Cold drinks and biscuits-that are high in salt and calories and low in fiber.

* At the same time TV keeps children indoors and is largely responsible for the lack of physical activity.

* TV viewing could lead to obesity because children tend to eat more when glued to the small screen.

* Studies done on women suggest that sedentary behaviour, especially prolonged television viewing, significantly increases the risk of obesity and diabetes.

* It was found that for every two hours spent watching TV, there is a 23% increase in obesity and a 14% increase in diabetes.

* On the other hand, one hour of brisk walking everyday reduces obesity by 24% and diabetes by 34%.

* Recent studies had revealed that the television viewing blocks the production of sleep hormone which is produced around 9 pm and induces sleep.

* Watching TV causes sleep deficit and can affect the child’s alertness in school.
* When children stopped watching TV for a week, the secretion of sleep hormone increased and improved sleep patterns.

* Heavy TV – viewing induces passivity and reduces thinking skills in children .It hampers creativity and the development of language skills.

*Kids who live in heavy house holds-homes where the TV is on always or most of the time-or less likely to be able to read by the age of six.

* Violent programmes can make children afraid or worried. This may make them aggressive and some may end up experimenting with sex and alcohol.

* The systematic use of TV for constructive purposes is better than the unsystematic use for destructive purposes.

Be No.1 By Following A to Z Tips

M.M.M Ahmed,Editor,Proactive Personality Developer
A- Avoid negative thoughts.

B- Believe in yourself.

C- Consider things from every angle.

D- Dont give up.

E- Enjoy today.Yesterday is gone.Tomorrow may not come.

F- Family and friends are hidden treasures.

G- Give more, take less.

H- Hang on to your dreams.

I- Ignore discouragers.

J- Just do it now or never.

K- Keep on trying untill you achieve.

L- Love yourself first and then others.

M- Make it happen.

N- Never lie,cheat,steal.

O- Open your eyes to see real things.

P- Practice makes perfect.

Q- Quitters never win and winners never quit.

R- Read books as closed books never open the mind.

S- Stop procrastinating.

T- Take control of your tongue.

U- Understand yourself first to understand others.

V- Visualize success.

W- Want to be an achiever.

X- Xccelerate your efforts.

Y- You are different from others.

Z- Zealous to be No.1

Enthusiasm-Live While You Are Alive.Don't Die Before You Are Dead.

M.M.M Ahmed,Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

*Nothing great is ever achieved without enthusiasm.

*Enthusiasm and success go hand in hand but enthusiasm comes first.

*Enthusiasm inspires confidence,raises morale,builds loyalty and is priceless.

* Enthusiasm is contagious.You can feel Enthusiasm by the way a person talks,walks or shakes hand.

*Enthusiasm is a habit that one can acquire and practice.

*Enthusiasm and burning desire are required for a change to excellence.

*Water turns into steam with a difference of only one degree in temperature and steam can move some of the biggest engines in the world.That is what enthusiasm helps us to move on in our lives.

*Charles Schwab,An American Steel Maker who was earning a salary of a million dollars a year, was asked if he was paid such a high salary because of his exceptional ability to produce steel.He replied,"I considered my ability to arouse enthusiasm among the men the greatest asset I possess and the way to develop the best that is in a man is by appreciation and encouragement".

*No Enthusiasm * No work * No prosperity * No life

Consequences Of Bad Human Relations.How To Maintain Good Human Relations?

Consequences Of Bad Human Relations

* Lack of Communication * Lack of Trust * Lack of Credibility

* Stress * Irritation *Close-mindedness

* No team spirit * Poor Self-Esteem * Suspicion

* Isolation * Loss Of Productivity * Poor Health

* Distrust * Anger * Prejudice

* Conflict * Frustration * Unhappiness

* Break Down Of Morale * Uncooperative Behaviour

How To Maintain Good Human Relations?

* Forgive yourself and others as you have been forgiven by The Almighty many times.

* Keep your heart open, otherwise your prayers will not be accepted by The Almighty.

* Don’t complain about others. If you can’t change others you change yourself to be proactive not reactive for peaceful, purposeful, positive, powerful and prosperous life.

* Don’t Backbite. Talk directly. If you can’t, be patient. The Almighty will help you.

* You must be the change you wish to see in the world. Peace, Progress And Prosperity.

* Be flexible not rigid for good solution of any problem as you should be a problem-solver not a problem-creator. Aim high as small aim is a crime.

* Take initiative in wishing the people as it improves human relations.

* Talk to like-minded person more and unlike minded person less but don’t break relations

* Respect difference of opinion as everyone has got different way of thinking.

* Replace ego with love as love conquers the whole world without weapons and wars.

* Smile always to attract others’ smile as smile costs nothing, it enriches human relations.

* Avoid anger, control your tongue as it is three inches long yet it can kill a man of six feet.

* Give and take policy for win+win dealings is good for good human relations as human relations are more rewarding than prayers.

Honouring Our Parents

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Parents deserve our love and respect more than any other human on the face of earth.

* They brought us up when we burst into the world naked and with hungry mouths wide open waiting to be fed.

* Parents often sacrifice their own dreams, wealth and often work way beyond the call of duty to ensure that they give their kids the best in this world.

* Parents painstakingly teach their children to live a life good which will eventually mould the child into a pious adult who is a benefit to society and not a burden.

* In this age it is not uncommon to hear tales of some teens rebelling against their parents and completely ignoring the proper etiquette for treating parents.

* This is a real tragedy that could possibly change the face of parent/child relations for centuries to come.

* Both the parents and the children they bear should be vigilant in preserving their bond at any cost and under any circumstances.

* There is only one instance when a child is allowed to be disobedient towards a parent. And that is in the event that the parent tries to lead the child to a wrong way or attempts to force them to commit an evil deed only then can a child disobey a parent.

* However even then the child is still obliged to educate the parents about the good deeds .

* We can find another wife,another husband, another brother, another sister,another relative, another friend, another son and another daughter.But we cannot,cannot and cannot find another parent.

* Respect, obey and serve parent physically by being close and together before it is too late to do.Just offering money is not enough.

* Remember paradise lies under the feet of mother and father is the main door of the paradise.Do not say from hoon to haan to parent even if they are wrong as per Holy Quran.

12 Tips For The Power Of Obedience To Parent

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* The power of obedience to parent takes you to the paradise far away from the hell.

* The power of obedience to parent makes you successful and proactive not reactive in the world.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you a lot of peace of mind .

* The power of obedience to parent gives you a lot of happiness.

* The power of obedience to parent keeps you and your parent healthy.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you respect, fame and wealth.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you good marks and grades in the examinations.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you excellent job with handsome salary.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you a life- partner of your choice.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you obedient children like you.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you higher qualification to make you better human being .

* The power of obedience to parent makes you fearless to go ahead in life and achieve whatever you dream

25 Tips- Never Compare With Each Other

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* The Almighty has created every person different for each other.

* Every person has got strong points and weak points.

* Every person has got opportunities and threats.

* Every person has different swot analysis (SWOT- Strength, weakness, opportunities, threats).

* The Almighty has blessed all persons with different things suitable to them.

* The Almighty is the best Judge to decide what is good and what is bad for any person.

* All persons must thank The Almighty always for what they have and don't complain of what they don't have

* Hence never compare your son with others' son

* Hence never compare your daughter with others' daughter.

* Hence never compare your father with others' father.

* Hence never compare your mother with others' mother.

*Hence never compare your brother with others' brother.

* Hence never compare your wife with others' wife.

*Hence never compare your husband with others' husband.

* Hence never compare your sister with others' sister.

* Hence never compare any person with others.

* Hence never compare your child with others' child.

* Hence never compare your girl with others' girl.

* Hence never compare your boy with others' boy.

* Treat different persons differently without being unfair.

* Praise beats criticism. Praise the person and criticism their bad behaviour.

* If you compare you gain nothing and you spoil yourself and others too.

* Exploit the strong points of persons and convert the weak points to strong points.

* If you compare, bad becomes worse and worse becomes the worst.

* If you don't compare , good becomes better and better becomes the best.

Children Learn What They Live

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

*If a child lives with criticism,he loves to condemn.

*If a child lives with hostility,he learns to fight.

*If a child lives with ridicule,he learns to be shy.

*If a child lives with shame,he learns to feel guilty.

*If a child lives with tolerance,he learns to feel patient.

*If a child lives with encouragement,he learns confidence

*If a child lives with praise,he learns to appreciate.

*If a child lives with fairness,he learns justice.

*If a child lives with security,he learns to have faith.

*If a child lives with approval,he learns to like himself.

*If a child lives with acceptance and friendship,he learns to find love in the world.