Saturday, December 31, 2011

Can You Answer Happiness Questionnaire?


M.M.M Ahmed(Transforming the Dreams into Reality)
Editor, Proactive Personality Developer
Inspirational and Motivational with Interesting Pictures
Akber Bagh,New Malakpet,Hyderabad-India
email: proactive.student@yahoo.co.in (Social Service)


Say Yes or No for the following statements

You are happy if your answers are Yes.

You are unhappy if your answers are No.

* I love where I live and work.I know what is important to me.

* When things go wrong i remember happy times.

* I make time for the thing that gives me pleasure.

* I know I could take better care of myself.

* I talk nicely to myself and other people.

* I feel I could make much more of the talents I have.

* I like to learn new things.I know I am always improving.

* I use my imagination and my mind to develop myself.

* I believe life will go my way.I value the people in my life.

* I know i can tackle anything life throws at me.

* I am happy with my roots.I am a worthwhile person.

* I am glad that I am who I am. Knowing who I am makes me happy.

* Life is meaningful. My contribution will last.

* I am able to let go of things that really don't matter.

* My company values me.My contribution to the business is important.

* Where I work is a pleasant place. I am happy with what I earn.

* I enjoy working in the office. My boss and I get on well together.

* I am part of an excellent team. I like the people I work with.

* The people I work with value me. My job is exciting and demanding.

* I love what I do.Everyday brings a new challenge.

* I know I do a good job.I am always learning new things.

* I will be doing different job in two years' time.

* I know more today than I did last year.

* I can see 2 career steps with my current company.

* I am being paid What I am worth.I earn enough for my needs.

* My salary compares favorably with my peers.

* I look forward to going to work. My working day flies by.

* I work because I enjoy it. Work is an important part of my life.

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Sunday, December 18, 2011

Seven Tips for Creative and Innovative Careers - Bill Gates



M.M.M Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer
Akber Bagh,New Malakpet,Hyderabad-India
email: proactive.student@yahoo.co.in

* Creative people are often self employed. This gives you scope to get creative and how to earn money as well as about what you produce creatively.

* An employed career is always limited in terms of what it will earn you. Use a bit of your creativity to be entrepreneurial too.

* Challenge yourself. Creative careers are never boring, they are careers in which you turn hobbies and passions into output or take the ordinary and make something extra-ordinary out of it. How can you challenge your own or other people's way of thinking?

* Use your creativity for innovation. Bill Gates is an example of a creative person who has used his creativity to innovate in business.

* By continually improving and inventing, he has led the competition for years and made a huge amount of money in the process.

* How can you use your creativity to build a career with a business advantage over your competitors?

* Be different. What is the point of being creative if you follow the crowd. Dare to stand out. Do the opposite of what other people do. Try new things. Take a conventional career and give it a twist. See what new creative career you can invent.

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

25 Tips of A Heart Specialist To Avoid Heart Attack



M.M.M Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer
Akber Bagh,New Malakpet,Hyderabad-India
email: proactive.student@yahoo.co.in


* There was a chat arranged by WIPRO for its employees with Dr.Devi Shetty-Heart Specialist who treated Mother Teresa also.

* The transcript of the chat is given below for hale and healthy life during this fast food period



What are the five thumb rules for a layman to take care of his heart?
Dr Devi Shetty:
1. Diet - Less of carbohydrate, more of protein, less oil.
2. Exercise - Half an hour's walk, at least five days a week; avoid lifts and avoid sitting for a longtime.
3. Quit smoking and alcohol.
4. Control weight.
5. Control blood pressure and sugar.
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It's still a grave shock to hear that some apparently healthy person gets a cardiac arrest. How do we understand it in perspective?
Dr Devi Shetty: This is called silent attack; that is why we recommend everyone past the age of 30 to undergo routine health checkups.
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Are heart diseases hereditary?
Dr Devi Shetty: Yes
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What are the ways in which the heart is stressed? What practices do you suggest to de-stress?
Dr Devi Shetty: Change your attitude towards life. Do not look for perfection in everything in life.
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Is walking better than jogging or is more intensive exercise required to keep a healthy heart?
Dr Devi Shetty: Walking is better than jogging since jogging leads to early fatigue and injury to joints
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You have done so much for the poor and needy. What has inspired you to do so?
Dr Devi Shetty: Mother Theresa, who was my patient.
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Can people with low blood pressure suffer heart diseases?
Dr Devi Shetty: Extremely rare
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Does cholesterol accumulates right from an early age (I'm currently only 22) or do you have to worry about it only after you are above 30 years of age?
Dr Devi Shetty: Cholesterol accumulates from childhood.
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How do irregular eating habits affect the heart?
Dr Devi Shetty: You tend to eat junk food when the habits are irregular and your body's enzyme release for digestion gets confused.
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How can I control cholesterol content without using medicines?
Dr Devi Shetty: Control diet, walk and eat walnut.
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Which is the best and worst food for the heart?
Dr Devi Shetty: Best food is fruits worst are oil.
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Which oil is better - gingili, groundnut, sunflower, saffola, olive?
Dr Devi Shetty: All oils are bad; the so-called best oil company has the largest marketing budget.
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What is the routine checkup one should go through? Is there any specific test?
Dr Devi Shetty: Routine blood test to ensure sugar, cholesterol is ok. Check BP, Treadmill test after an echo.
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How different was it in treating Noor Fatima, the little kid from Pakistan ?
Dr Devi Shetty: It was extremely difficult, Because of the media attention. As far as the medical treatment is concerned, she is like any other child with a complex heart problem.
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What are the first aid steps to be taken on a heart attack?
Dr Devi Shetty: Help the person into a sleeping position, put an aspirin tablet under the tongue with a sorbitrate tablet if available, and rush him to a coronary care unit since the maximum casualty takes place within the first hour.
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How do you differentiate between pain caused by a heart attack and that caused due to gastric trouble?
Dr Devi Shetty: Extremely difficult without ECG.
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What is the main cause of a steep increase in heart problems amongst youngsters? I see people of about 30-40 yrs of age having heart attacks and serious heart problems.
Dr Devi Shetty: Increased awareness has increased incidents. Also, endentary lifestyles, smoking, junk food, use of alcohol and lack of exercise in a country where people are genetically three times more vulnerable for heart attacks than Europeans and Americans.
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Is it possible for a person to have BP outside the normal range of 120/80 and yet be perfectly healthy?
Dr Devi Shetty: Yes.
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Marriages within close relatives can lead to heart problems for the child. Is it true?
Dr Devi Shetty: Yes, co-sanguinity leads to congenital abnormalities and you may not have a software engineer as a child.
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Many of us have an irregular daily routine and many a times we have to stay late nights in office. Does this affect our heart? What precautions would you recommend?
Dr Devi Shetty: When you are young, nature protects you against all these irregularities. However, as you grow older, respect the biological clock.
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Will taking anti-hypertensive drugs cause some other complications (short / long term)?
Dr Devi Shetty: Yes, most drugs have some side effects. However, modern anti-hypertensive drugs are extremely safe.
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Will consuming more coffee/tea lead to heart attacks?
Dr Devi Shetty: No.
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Are asthma patients more prone to heart disease?
Dr Devi Shetty: No.
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How would you define junk food?
Dr Devi Shetty: Fried food like Kentucky , McDonalds, samosas, and even masala dosas.
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Does consuming bananas help reduce hypertension?
Dr Devi Shetty: No.
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Can a person help himself during a heart attack (Because we see a lot of forwarded emails on this)?
Dr Devi Shetty: Yes. Lie down comfortably and put an aspirin tablet of any description under the tongue and ask someone to take you to the nearest coronary care unit without any delay and do not wait for the ambulance since most of the time, the ambulance does not turn up.
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Do, in any way, low white blood cells and low hemoglobin count lead to heart problems?
Dr Devi Shetty: No. But it is ideal to have normal hemoglobin level to increase your exercise capacity.
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Sometimes, due to the hectic schedule we are not able to exercise. So, does walking while doing daily chores at home or climbing the stairs in the house, work as a substitute for exercise?
Dr Devi Shetty: Certainly. Avoid sitting continuously for more than half an hour , even getting out of the chair and going to another chair and sitting helps a lot.
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Is there a relation between heart problems and blood sugar?
Dr Devi Shetty: Yes. A strong relationship since diabetics are more vulnerable to heart attacks than non-diabetics.
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What are the things one needs to take care of after a heart operation?
Dr Devi Shetty: Diet, exercise, drugs on time. Control cholesterol, BP, weight.
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Are people working on night shifts more vulnerable to heart disease when compared to day shift workers?
Dr Devi Shetty: No.
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What are the modern anti-hypertensive drugs?
Dr Devi Shetty: There are hundreds of drugs and your doctor will chose the right combination for your problem, but my suggestion is to avoid the drugs and go for natural ways of controlling blood pressure by walk, diet to reduce weight and changing attitudes towards lifestyles.
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Does dispirin or similar headache pills increase the risk of heart attacks?
Dr Devi Shetty: No.
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Why is the rate of heart attacks more in men than in women?
Dr Devi Shetty: Nature protects women till the age of 45.
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How can one keep the heart in a good condition?
Dr Devi Shetty: Eat a healthy diet, avoid junk food, exercise everyday, do not smoke and go for a health checkup if you are past the age of 30 for at least once in two yrs. And work very hard.

Friday, November 4, 2011

Don't Waste Time otherwise Time Will Waste You



M.M.M Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer
Akber Bagh,New Malakpet,Hyderabad-India
email: proactive.student@yahoo.co.in

* To realize the value of one year.

Ask a student who has failed the examination.

* To realize the value of one month.

Ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.

* To realize the value of one week.

Ask an editor of a weekly magazine.

* To realize the value of one day.

Ask a daily wage labourer.

* To realize the value of one hour.

Ask a lover who is waiting to meet.

* To realize the value of one minute.

Ask a person who has missed the train.

* To realize the value of one second.

Ask a person who has survived an accident.

* To realize the value of one millisecond.

Ask a person who has won a gold medal in Olympics.

* Use time in constructive activties and not destructive activities. Be a trouble shooter and not a trouble maker to be popular and famous and not unpopular and notorious.

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Fifteen Tips For Ethical Leadership In The Corporate World



M.M.M Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer
Akber Bagh,New Malakpet,Hyderabad-India

* Declare conflicts of interest.

* Interact with other people respectfully.

* Give honest and constructive timely feedback.

* Avoid compromising gifts or hospitality.

* Acknowledge the contribution of others.

* Distance yourself from cynicism or defamation of others.

* Have a well founded reputation for fair dealing.

* Insure that what you say in complete and not misleading.

* Recognize the capabilities and individuality of other people.

* Help to develop a friendly and satisfying working environment.

* Give priority to the safety, health and well being of other people.

* Listen to the ideas and views of other people in a kindly manner.

* Pursue your personal and career ambitions without prejudicing others'.

* Respect the confidentiality of any information given in confidence.

* Be ethical by having good intentions.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Fifteen Tips To Be A Charismatic Personality



M.M.M Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer
Akber Bagh,New Malakpet,Hyderabad-India

Charismatic people communicate and establish rapport effortlessly and successfully

* Confident but not arrogant.

* Genuine and respectful of others.

* Shows real interest and liking for other people.

* An Individual who does not follow the crowd.

* Enthusiastic about your purpose, views and aims.

* Able to speak clearly and confidently.

* Able to speak with conviction and enthusiasm.

* Able to speak with emotion.

* Not pushy or domineering.

* Good at reading other people.

* Good at tuning in with other people.

* Moves with poise and grace.

* Appears full of energy.

* Passionate about their beliefs.

* Calm and confident body language.

Twelve Tips to Improve and Develop Charisma

* Relax

* Look and sound confident

* Like yourself and like other people.

* Be interested in people, sensitive to their needs and emotions.

* Be in touch with other people's emotions and your own emotions.

* Don't be afraid to show your emotions.

* Look and sound positive.

* Be self reliant.

* Look and sound full of energy.

* Speak with passion and conviction.

* Develop your own vision, purpose and message.

* Make people feel special.

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Five Steps To Set Smart Goals



M.M.M Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer
Akber Bagh,New Malakpet,Hyderabad-India

There is a formula used by smart people for setting out their aims that can help anyone to be more effective in achieving success.

When defining your own goals, make sure they are SMART as exemplified below:

* Specific: I shall go to the gym for an hour at 4 PM. (Not: I am planning to get more exercise)

* Measurable: I shall substitute one portion of fruit for a chocolate bar everyday this week. (not: I shall eat more fruit from now on)

* Achievable: I have decided to cut out fatty meats, burgers, fried foods and takeaways. (not: I am going to avoid all saturated fat.)

* Realistic: I shall take a deep breath whenever my partner irritates me. (not: I am never going to argue again.)

* Timely: I am starting a diet on Monday and aiming to lose a few centimeters from my waste by April 7. (not: I want a 66 CM waist)

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

12 Symptoms of Depression and How to Control them



M.M.M Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer
Akber Bagh,New Malakpet,Hyderabad-India

* Low mood and inability to concentrate.

* Feeling sad and tired most of the time.

* Inability to enjoy things that initially used to bring pleasure.

* Irritability or anxiety.

* Withdrawal from family and friends.

* Weight loss or gain.

* Sleeping excessively.

* Thoughts of death or suicide.

* Pessimism or low self-esteem or feeling of guilt or worthlessness.

* Aches and pains with no medical causes.

* Not wanting to do anything or seeing anybody.

* Isolation and sensitivity to rejection.

* Depression leads to suicide, suicide leads to hell and that is the worst end.

How to Control Depression

* Believe in The Almighty, pray and hope for the best.

* Do social service to please the Almighty and feel better about yourself.

* Pursue whatever hobbies or pastimes that can bring you joy.

* Keep yourself busy as an idle brain is devil's workshop.

* Forget the bad people and remember the good people to keep you happy.

* Learn something that sparks your imagination and creativity.

* Laughter provides a mood boost, watch a comedy or read a funny book.

* Don't stay cooped up at home all day. Go to the park for a brisk walk and go for head and body massage.

* Have a lunch with friends to enjoy the life.

* Invite the loved ones to visit you and keep in touch over the phone.

* Forget the bad past and expect the bright future.

* Forgive others to be forgiven by the Almighty.

* Be realistic. Expecting too much leads to depression.

* Count the plus points of life not the minus points to be happy

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

25 Techniques of World Top Achievers’ Time Management



M.M.M Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer
Akber Bagh,New Malakpet,Hyderabad-India

Top world achievers shared the following characteristics about time management techniques:

•Solve the problems instead of blaming each other to save time.

•Mentally rehearse actions and events for excellence.

•Know when to start and when to stop to be well organized.

•Take interesting holidays for better quality and more quantity of work.

•Know how to develop and delegate the sub-ordinates for maximum work in minimum time.

•Avoid unnecessary details. Make all-out efforts in the right direction with target.

•Live for today and not for tomorrow. Being well prepared today ensures a brighter tomorrow.

•Follow the time management priority orderly.
1Important and urgent. 2. Important and not urgent. 3. Not important but urgent. 4. Not urgent and not important

•Set time limits for meetings with clear agenda. Make time for your boss and subordinates.

•Neither interrupt your boss nor subordinates unnecessarily.

•Clarify the key priorities with your boss and explain to your subordinates.

•If you fail to plan, plan to fail for sure. Planning with a strategy is a must.

•Organize your files and forward them without delay.

•Don’t allow casual visitors to save time. Monitor phone calls to prevent interruptions.

•Keep appointments on time apart from emergencies.

•Solve the problems and make yourself available when needed .Set deadlines and work accordingly.

•Plan ‘quite times’ regularly for reflection and long term work.

•Help others to improve time management skills. Stop and assess your time management performance.

•Reward yourself and others for time management techniques success.

If you waste your time, time will waste you

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Thursday, June 9, 2011

What Happens When You Are Angry?



M.M.M Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer
Akber Bagh,New Malakpet,Hyderabad-India


Scientific Changes

• Increased Blood Pressure Increased Heart Rate.
• Spasm of Arteries, Increased Acid in Stomach.
• Increased Breathing Rate, Sweating.
• Slow Digestion, Depressed Immunity.
• Increased Fat in Blood, Back pain and Shoulder Pain.
• Tense Facial Muscles, Angina, Heart Attack.

Behavioural Changes

• Tense, Anxious, Shouting, Nose Bleeding.
• Crying, Bitterness, Making Threat, Hostile Jokes.
• Breaking Objects. Tear Clothes.
• Smash Mirrors/TV. Crush Papers.
• Destroy Toys, Throw Books/Shoes.
• Slap Someone, Clenched Fist, Stop Talking for days.

Long Term Losses

• Bad Reputation, Loss of Good Friends.
• Bad Family Relationships, Divorce.
• Loss of Business, Loss of Emotional Support, Bad Health, Depression.
• Creation of Enemy-Most Loves Becomes Most Hated, Court Cases.

Advantages of Reduction of Anger

• Improved Relationship at Home, Office and Society.
• Enemy can turn into a friend. Grossly reduces the chances of divorce.
• You will not hate any one. Hatred is the worst enemy of your life.
• Good Health, Smiling Face and Happiness.
• Increased Mental Strength.

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Sunday, February 13, 2011

Fifteen Effective Tips to Reduce Weight to Get Rid of All Diseases



M.M.M Ahmed,Editor,Proactive Personality Developer.
Akber Bagh,New Malakpet,Hyderabad-India

• Eat when you are hungry. Don’t eat when you are not hungry.
• Eat what you really want. Never what you think you should.
• Eat consciously and enjoy every mouthful without watching TV, internet, cell and talking too much, otherwise you will eat too much.
• Eat slowly to reduce eating speed to reduce food. Chew at least twenty times.
• The more you chew you feel your jaw tired and you stop eating to reduce weight.
• The slower you eat the sooner the signal from stomach goes to brain indicating you’re your stomach is full and stop eating to reduce weight.
• Stop when you even think you are full. Don’t overload your digestive system to get rid of all diseases.
• First drink water if you are hungry. If you are still hungry then eat food. Don’t drink water during eating to protect your digestive system.
• Leave the food on plate if you can’t eat. Don’t eat too much even if the food is left on plate to protect your digestive system.
• Don’t diet. Dieting is the enemy of weight loss. If you diet you will gain weight and keep it on for whole life.
• Move your body by any exercise to burn the body fat and to make your muscles strong.
• Imagine you are losing weight and becoming slimmer day by day (Mind Programming).
• Check your weight once in a month, observe how much weight you have already reduced and how much more weight you have to reduce to make your Body Mass Index (BMI) less than 25.
• BMI=Weight in kilogram divided by (Height in square metre).
• Eat vegetables, fruits, white meat. Eat less bakery products, chocolates, soft drinks, fast food, red meat and potato chips.

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Sunday, January 9, 2011

An Open Letter From Satan To A Child .All Children Must Read It



M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

I saw you yesterday as you began your daily chores.
You awoke without going to pray. As a matter of fact,
you didn't even bless your meals, or pray before going
to bed last night. You are so unthankful. I like that about you.

I cannot tell you how glad I am that you have not changed
your way of living. Fool! You are mine. Remember, you and I
have been going steady for years, and I still don't love you yet.
As a matter of fact, I hate you, because I hate The Almighty I am only
using you to get even with The Almighty. He kicked me out of heaven,
and I'm going to use you as long as possible to pay him back.

You see, Fool, The Almighty LOVES YOU and HE has great plans
in store for you. But you have yielded your life to me and I'm
going to make your life a living hell. That way we'll be together twice.
This will really hurt The Almighty. Thanks to you. I'm really showing Him who's
boss in your life. With all of the good times we've had.....
We have been watching dirty movies, cursing people out,
partying, stealing, lying, hypocriting, fornicating, overeating,
telling dirty jokes, gossiping, backstabbing people,
disrespecting adults and those in leadership position,
NO respect for the praying place, bad attitudes:
SURELY you don't want to give all this up.

Come on, Fool, let's burn together forever. I've got some
hot plans for us. This is just a letter of appreciation from me
to you. I'd like to say "THANKS" for letting me use you for
most of your foolish life. You are so gullible. I laugh at you.
When you are tempted to sin, you give in. HA HA HA
You make me sick.

Sin is beginning to take its toll on your life.
You look 20 years older. I need new blood. So go ahead
and teach some children how to sin. All you have to do is smoke,
drink alcoholic beverages, cheat, gamble, gossip, fornicate,
and listen to and dance to the top 10 jams. Do all of this in the
presence of children and they will do it too. Kids are like that.

Well, Fool, I have to let you go for now. I'll be back in a couple of
seconds to tempt you again. If you were smart, you would run somewhere,
confess your sins, live for The Almighty with what little bit of life that you have
left. It's not my nature to warn anyone, but to be your age and still
sinning, it's becoming a bit ridiculous. Don't get me wrong, I still hate you......

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P.S. - And if you really love me, you won't share this letter with anyone.