An Open Letter From Mom and Dad to a Child. All children must read it.

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

When I get old, I hope you understand and have patience with me

In case I break a plate,
or spill soup on the table because I'm losing my eyesight,
I hope you don't yell at me.
Older people are sensitive.
..always having selfpity when you yell

When my hearing gets worse and i cant hear what you're saying,
I hope you don't call me "Deaf!"
please repeat what you said or write it down

I'm sorry, my Child.
...I'm getting older
When my knees get weaker,
I hope you have the patience to help me get up
Like how I used to help you while you were little,
Learning how to walk.

Please bear with me
When I keep repeating myself like a broken record,
I hope you just keep listening to me
Please don't make fun of me
or
get sick of listening to me

Do you remember when you were little and you wanted a balloon?
You repeated youself over and over until you got what you wanted

...... Please also pardon my smell.
I smell like an old person
Please don't force me to shower.
My body is weak.

Old people get sick easily when they're cold.
I hope i don't gross you out.

Do you remember when you were little?
I used to chase you around because you didn't want to shower.

I hope you can be patient with me
When I'm always cranky
It's all part of getting old.
You'll understand when you're older

And if you have spare time,
I hope we can talk, Even for a few minutes

I'm always all by myself all the time.
and have no one to talk to
I know you're busy with work
Even if you're not interested in my stories,
Please have time for me.

Do you remember when you were little?
I used to listen to your stories about your teddy bear.
When the time comes and I get ill and bedridden,
I hope you have the patience to take care of me.

IM SORRY
if i accidentally wet the bed or make a mess
I hope you have the patience to take care of me during the last few moments of my life
Im not going to last much longer, anyways
When the time of my death comes,
I hope you hold my hand and give me the strength to face death
And don't worry...
When i finally meet our Creator...
I will whisper in His ear
to BLESS you

Because you loved your Mom and Dad.
Thanks you so much for your care.
We love you.

with much love,
Your Loving Mom and Dad

15 Tips to Beat the Ego to Beat the Pride

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

•Ego means I am more important than others and what I believe is true.

•Ego means my point of view is more important than that of others so I am trapped within my point of view and I become arrogant and stubborn.

•When ego prevails in my mind, I begin to compete with everyone for everything, no matter what the cost. I do not see beyond self-gratification.

•Ego means I am right, others are wrong. I am perfect , others are not perfect.

•Ego means I don’t commit any mistakes and others do commit mistakes.

•Ego means I know everything and others know nothing.

•Ego means I can challenge anybody and nobody can challenge me.

•Ego means I can do whatever I want and others cannot do whatever they want.

•Ego means I am independent and I don’t depend on others but others are dependant, They depend on me. They cant do anything without me.

•Ego means I am powerful, Might is right but others are powerless.

•Ego means I am self-established and others are not self-established.

•Ego means I don't wish others and I expect others to wish me first

•Drop the “ I ” and live in the “ We ” to be happy and let others be happy to beat ego as ego leads to pride and pride kisses the ground.

•The best way to get rid of ego is start taking initiative in wishing others with a wonderful smile.

•All ego,pride and self-boasting are for The Almighty-The Creator not for the human-beings- the creatures.

Why Should You Visit This Website?

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* This website is new, creative and different from other websites with interesting pictures like a story book to develop personality by enjoying reading.

* Dream big like Dr. Shah Faisal-IAS Topper with two crowns MBBS and IAS as small dream is a crime. Transform your dream into reality.

* Short and sweet tips easy to understand and practice to improve English to be presentable in this corporate world during globalisation period.

* Knowledge is a necessity but personality development is a must.

* Personality development is as important as scoring high marks to face the different rounds of interviews required for the jobs of multinational companies, civil services and all competitive examinations for success.

* Personality development is required wherever students go throughout the world for higher education, overseas jobs, assignments and projects.

* This website is inspirational and motivational for engineers, doctors, professionals, businessmen, housewives and retired persons also.

* Now-a-days 30% students are employable and remaining 70% students are unemployable due to lack of personality development. This website makes them employable after developing their personality and employability.

* This website develops the personality of the students physically, mentally, intellectually, emotionally, spiritually for self-control and to be self-established for self-satisfaction by working smarter rather than harder.

* This website makes the students open minded not fixed minded during this period of fast developments, changes, cut-throat competitions and survival of the fittest and never, never, never give up . No Hope-No Success.

* This website inspires and motivates to be happy and let others to be happy by being proactive not reactive. Always smile and say no to depression.

* This website increases not only intelligence quotient (IQ) but also increases emotional quotient (EQ) to be healthy, wealthy and wise.

* Closed websites never open the mind. Cultivate the habit of reading.

* Winners don’t do different things, they do things differently.

* Students have got bachelor degrees and master degrees but they don’t have jobs due to lack of personality development and proper career planning.

* Students don’t have communication skills, inter-personal skills and presentation skills due to lack of personality development.

* Seeking and spreading the knowledge pleases The Almighty to be rewarded.

* This website can be introduced to students to be achievers, newly married couples for happy married life and senior citizens for peace of mind and happiness.

* This website is evergreen and useful for you, your children, even for your grand children and future generations.

* This website is not for profit but for social service to spread the good message across the world for a better change.

How to Use This Website

* This website increases vocabulary, fluency, speaking power without hesitation, stage fear and inhibition to develop personality by three steps.

* Step-1 Read the website and understand by referring dictionary if the meaning is not known to increase vocabulary for better understanding.

* Step-2 Read the website loudly as many times as possible to memorize and gain fluency to become powerful speaker to be a winner.

* Step-3 Speak out in front of a mirror with actions to avoid stage fear, hesitation and inhibition to develop personality by being fearless.

* This website can be taught as a non-detailed subject once in a week during personality development classes in schools, colleges and institutes or self study by students at home like a story book as a good hobby.

* It is better that every student has one downloaded copy of this website as a reference for his/her all-round personality development to face the challenges of life and to avoid suicide by being hard-working, honest, hopeful, happy and helpful.

The Profile of M.M.M Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer (Transforming Dreams into Reality)

M.M.M.Ahmed(Mohammed Masood Mohiuddin Ahmed) did his B.Tech. from University College of Technology, Osmania University, Hyderabad. He was trained in Aramco’s Management, Principles and Techniques of Instruction in Saudi Arabia. He worked as a Trainer at the Desalination Training Centres of Saudi American Oil Company, Mitsubishi Japanese Company and Saline Water Conversion Corporation-The largest Desalination Plan in the world. He got an opportunity to work with different foreigners- Americans, British, Canadians, Japanese and Koreans.
He trained many trainees and they are working successfully at different desalination plants throughout the kingdom of Saudi Arabia. His excellent Accomplishments and efforts for inspiring and motivating the trainees were highly appreciated by the Training Centres’ Management.
He enjoyed the training and the trainee enjoyed the learning as it was interesting, innovative, creative and interactive. He gained good experience in training profession which gave him an insight into the minds of students.
Now it has become the cherished desire of the editor to give all-round personality development, spoken English and communication skill to the students throughout the world through his Books, Blog and Articles as he feels that it is his social responsibility to guide them; for he believes that
Seeking and spreading the knowledge pleases The Almighty.
My blog material can be used for the personality development classes to be conducted for the students once in a week as:
Knowledge is a Necessity but Personality Development is a Must.
Free click blog: www.proactivepersonality.blogspot.com for short and sweet tips on different topics to develop personality and improve english to become a powerful speaker. The tips can be downloaded throughout the world, copied and distrubuted among students free of cost to make them successful.
Quadaria Social transformation movement for Happy, Successful and Peaceful life
M.M.M.Ahmed has written 3 books
1. Proactive Student’s Personality Development Tips
2. 250 Proactive Life-Transformation Thoughts
3. Tips to Score more Marks in S.S.C Board Examination
• Mission - To write personality development tips as the ink of a scholar is more sacred than the blood of a martyr.
• Vision - To develop the overall personality of every person throughout the world to be rewarded by The Almighty.
• Dream - To be happy and let others to be happy for good health and harmony by being proactive not reactive
Give the world the best you have and the better than the best will come back to you- Do it now or never.
Be proactive-initiate the change actively in anticipation of future developments rather than merely reacting to events as they occur.
copyright is free. Enjoy the joy of giving.
This is my Social Service. Please remember me in your prayers.
Email Proactive.student@yahoo.co.in

Twelve Reasons To Do MBA

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer


* Now-a-days most of the companies prefer MBAs instead of degree students to develop in the corporate sector as team leaders.

* To develop motivation skills, problem solving skills, communication skills, presentation skills and inter-personal skills.

* To conduct seminars, group discussions, role playing, management meets, paper presentations, business quiz and guest lectures.

* MBA students get good opportunities in the world as India is developing economically and getting good positions in world wide multi-national companies.

* To develop co-ordinating and integrating skills with confidence from all the departments and people.

* To develop personality to be more confident, organised and capable of planning both for short and long term to be a successful entrepreneur as MBA has its own face value in all ways.

* To gain more practical knowledge than books, a non-MBA is not so strong in decision making and strategies. The theoretical and practical knowledge help you to become a good practitioner in your profession.

* With the help of case discussions, team work, team spirit, class discussions, industrial tours and visits, you will have confidence in solving any problem successfully with dynamism.

* The MBA course structure itself trains you in all the ways with mental discipline to make you a leader to lead successfully for a managerial role.

* An MBA helps in maintaining good interpersonal relations, endless discussions, case studies, group projects and constant interactions with batch mates compels even the most reserved person to open up.

* An MBA course compels one to increase general awareness and keep abreast of the latest trends particularly in economics and business.

* An MBA helps to develop an application-oriented approach, awareness of human relations and sensitivity to man management and a vision of the future.

Students - Victims of Peer Pressure

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Peer pressure is a vital factor in shaping up of an individual's personality and is an essential part of learning experience.

* Peer pressure is a social problem and a significant part of college life.

* The question is how does one make the best out of one's peers and manage the pressure that comes with it.

* The causes of peer pressure are alcohol, drugs, smoking, fashion, food habits, academics, partying and live-in relationships.

* Under-aged students over drink to the point where ambulances are caused for emergencies.

* A few students are unable to handle the sudden freedom they are provided at hostels after they have lived with their parents.

* Students try to fit into peers culture and leave what they have been taught back home by parents and do what their friends at campus do.

* The best way to fight peer pressure is to stay firm on who you are, what you believe in and what you stand for. Just because it is fun and everyone does it need not make it right.

* Immune yourself to peer pressure. Do not compromise your values, it is helpful to speak to a trusted grown up person if you feel you are being pushed into an undesirable situation.

* Avoid the trigger situation and the peer pressure will subside.

* If your so-called group of friends do not respect your values, they are probably not worth it.

* You are lucky, if you have good friends. You are unlucky, if you have bad friends. A person is known by his/her friends.

25 Tips To Be A Successful Enterpreneur

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Associate with good people to share the knowledge and experience.

* You never need to cheat to win.

* What is right is more important than who is right.

* You can get what you want in life if you help other people get what they want.

* Success occurs when opportunity and preparation meet.Seize the opportunity when it knocks.

* It is not who you know that counts, it is who knows you.

* Ambition is the fuel that can drive life-changing events.

* You and your spouse are a team act like one by understanding each other.

* Create a big dream as you will never achieve more than you think you can.Small dream is a crime.

* Never let your expenses outstrip your revenue.

* Making a profit is always a necessity if you want to stay in business.

* As an entrepreneur, the secret to success is cash,cash and cash.

* Take care of your customers and create a motivating environment for your people.Without them you have no company.

* Dont create a company of ducks.Let your people soar like eagles to deliver superior customer service.

* Working people today want a partnership relationship to work better.

* Everyone should be encouraged to be a leader by empowering them to relieve you to do everything yourself.

* Good relationships at work and at home are important for prosperity.

* Keep your priorities in order.First thing first.

* Balance your work and family life for better results.

* Seek the wisdom of your mentors continually.

* The wrong leader can send you in wrong direction you dont want to go.

* The right leader at the right time can send you in the right direction.

* Giving can be much more rewarding than taking.

* Be generous with your wealth, time and talent to live a happy and fulfilled life.

* Many entrepreneurs go out of business because they don't know how to manage thier money.

You Are Healthy But Tired Always--Why?

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

Can you answer the following questions?

* Is your family life happy? Yes or No

* Do you enjoy your work? Yes or No

* Is your profession useful for the society? Yes or No

* Are you successful in your career? Yes or No

* Is it possible for you to achieve your high aims? Yes or No

* Can you be happy after a failure or depression or bitter experience? Yes or No

* Do you give importance to you and your work? Yes or No

* Are you satisfied after doing your work the best possible way? Yes or No

* Do you care your body, mind and soul? Yes or No

* Do you thank The Almighty for his countless blessings you enjoy? Yes or No

* Can you forget your work when you are on vacation or during sleeping hours? Yes or No

* Do you enjoy financial freedom? Yes or No

* Do people enjoy your company? Yes or No

* Do you enjoy people's company? Yes or No

* Can you make strangers your friends? Yes or No

* Do you have good human relations? Yes or No

* Do you get enough love and affection from your family and friends? Yes or No

If the answers of the above questions are "Yes", you are healthy and active always.

If the answers of the above questions are "No", you are healthy but tired always due to negative psychological effects.

Fifteen Tips For Proactive Leadership

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

• Leadership is not something you do to people, it is something you do with them.

• The key to proactive leadership is the relationship you build with your team.

• Sharing the big picture puts everyone on the same page.

• It is easier to get up the hill when you climb it together.

• Praise is the easiest way to let people know they are appreciated.

• Each of us has the power to recognize the goodness in others.

• You will go a lot further if you stop to refuel.

• People will think for themselves when you quit doing it for them.

• Leadership is process of getting everyone to the place they are supposed to go.

• Leading people means the opposite of trying to control them.

• Leadership is not what just happens when you are there, it is what happens when you are not there.

• Integrity lays the foundation for trust and respect.

• The highest achievement as a leader is winning the respect and trust of your team.

• Let people know that what they do is important.

• Leading proactively means more than just getting results.

Twelve Tips To Speak like a CEO

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Personality Developer

* Being the top person-Chief Executive Officer in any organization is a great accomplishment.

* Today people expect more than ever of their leaders.

* You work hard and make the most of luck to reach the top. Then you work harder to keep the job as you are an authentic leader.

* If you aspire to the top job, you not only have to know your business - you have to know how to communicate with everyone inside and outside business.

* The higher you go, the more visible you are, the more communication counts.

* You are competing in a global world with instant communication. There is no forgiveness for the leader who can't keep up.

* Once you arrive in the top jobs, you are expected to know what to do.

* As you move up the ladder, you don't necessarily get opportunities to do what you need to when you are the boss.

* You have been promoted for your business skill,now you have to develop a whole new set of competencies.

* The Number one skill determined to be indispensable to leaders is communication. You Must be born with this talent or you can learn how to command communication.

* On your rise to the top, hard work and experience are important.To lead in your company you must be ready to assume the leader's speaking role.

* It is neither the smartest nor the hardest working CEO who succeed in business.It is the one who best communicate their firm's vision.

12 Symptoms of persons with stress

M.M.M.Ahmed,Editor, Personality Developer

* Becoming more prone to illness. (skin disease, headaches)

* Continual loss of appetite.

* Decrease in self-esteem or self-confidence. (paying less attention to appearance)

* Increase in negative thoughts leading to depression.

* Becoming irrational in thinking.

* Being more irritable and less tolerant of others.

* Either fail to get to sleep quickly or wake up earlier than normal.

* Inability to concentrate.

* Becoming indecisive and struggling to make decisions.

* Being emotional, becoming tearful for no apparent reason.

* Being overly aggressive or overly passive.

* Inability to laugh or demonstrate love to others.

Knowledge is Power: The Need of the Hour

M.M.M.Ahmed,Editor, Personality Developer

* Seek knowledge as nine hundred and ninety nine blessings out of one thousand are bestowed on scholar and those who seek knowledge and the remaining one blessing is bestowed on everybody else by The Almighty.

* A scholar never loses his hunger for knowledge and keeps seeking knowledge until his last breath.

* Scholars are the light in this world and in the hereafter as the ink of a scholar is more sacred than the blood of a martyr.

* The person who recognizes scholars' value and loves them is very fortunate.

* Very unfortunate is the person who shows hostility and enmity towards the scholars.

* The destruction of people will be because of two things, one going away from knowledge and the other is accumulating wealth.

* If a scholar sins, one sin is written against him and if an illiterate person sins, two sins are written against him.

* The burden on the scholar is only 'Why did you commit the sin?', whilst on the illiterate person, one sin is for committing the offence and the other is for not learning about it.

* Two kinds of people are enemies of the religion. One is the king who has no tolerance and the other is the worshiper who has no knowledge.

* The person who sits with women will become more lustful and ignorant.

* The person who sits with rich people will have the desire of the world increased in his heart.

* The person who sits with scholar will be filled with knowledge.

Develop Multiple Intelligences In Child

M.M.M.Ahmed,Editor, Personality Developer

* Interpersonal Intelligence makes your child pupil smart to be a good team member.

* Intra Personal intelligence makes your child self smart to be independent.

* Linguistic intelligence makes your child word smart to be a good speaker.

* Logical intelligence makes your child logic smart to be a good mathematician.

* Naturalist Intelligence makes your child nature smart to be a good naturalist.

* Spacial Intelligence makes your child picture smart to judge the position and sizes of the objects.

* Kinestatic Intelligence makes your child body smart to understand bodily needs.

* Musical Intelligence makes your child music smart to be a good musician.

THE HARDER YOU WORK, THE LUCKIER YOU BECOME

M.M.M.Ahmed,Editor, Personality Developer

* The more you work hard at practicing what you do, the greater success you will have.

* When it comes to improvement, practice,practice and practice That is hard work.

* Hard work involves sacrifice. It means going without the easier things while concentrating on attaining the desired result.

* Hard work is not merely about physical energy.It is also emotional energy.

* The will to work hard Emanates from the heart not the mind.

* You need to enjoy what you do. You work hard when you have fun in doing so.

* When in hard work mode, you resist any amusing distractions in order to focus your energy on the desired end result.

* Any success in life - whether winning a competition or passing an examination or even writing a book requires hard work.

* Hard work means applying concentrated doses of energy to accomplish the goal.

* The harder the competition, the harder the work has to be done.

Whoever Follows A Path Seeking Knowledge,Almighty Will Make His Path To Paradise easy.

Consequences Of Bad Human Relations

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Lack of Communication

* Lack of Trust

* Lack of Credibility

* Stress

* Irritation

*Close-mindedness

* No team spirit

* Poor Self-Esteem

* Suspicion

* Isolation

* Loss Of Productivity

* Poor Health

* Distrust

* Anger

* Prejudice

* Conflict

* Frustration

* Unhappiness

* Break Down Of Morale

* Uncooperative Behaviour

10 Benefits of Miswak

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Miswak strengthens gums.

* Miswak effectively removes plague and yellowness of teeth.

* Miswak fights tooth decay.

* Miswak cleans and brightens teeth.

* Miswak removes bad odour.

* Miswak improves the sense of taste.

* Miswak sharpens the memory and intelligence.

* Miswak assists in digestion.

* Miswak improves the eye sight.

* Miswak improves the health and luster of the face of the continual user.

* Do you use Miswak?

* If not, start using Miswak right now.

Beware of sex in offices - 10 Tips

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* No flirting of any sort with team members of the opposite sex.

* No sexual comments or jokes of any kind.

* No casual touching.

* If disciplining a staff member of the opposite sex, make sure you have a witness present.

* Beware of late one-to-one meetings with staff members of the opposite sex.

* Definitely no sexual relationship with team members.

* All comments or jokes about sensitive issues such as gender, race and region are unacceptable.

* Disapprove immediately you hear any such comments or jokes from team members.

* Don't spoil yourself and others by indulging in illegal sex as you will be punished severely here and in the hereafter.

* If money is lost, nothing is lost. If health is lost, something is lost but if character is lost everything is lost.

Are You Socially Intelligent? 12 Tips

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Accept others for what they are.

* Take an interest in other people.

* Understand people's thoughts, feelings and intentions.

* Have a social conscience and take interest and curiosity about the world.

* Think before speaking and doing.

* Make fair and considered judgments.Don't make snap judgments.

* Do not be afraid to admit your mistakes.

* Be frank and honest with yourself and others.

* Be good at taking the perspective of other people.

* Be sensitive to other people's needs and desires.

* Adapt well and quickly to different social situations.

* Be open to new ideas, values and view points.

12 Tips To Be An Adventurous

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Evaluate your talents and play to your strength by taking calculated risk.

* Consider risk-taking as a possible opportunity rather than an enterprise that is likely to result in failure.

* Do not let the past rule your life.Develop the confidence to move on and make choices.

* Give yourself credit for everything you try to achieve even if you do not achieve your goal.

* Do not worry if you are not perfect as nobody is perfect.

* You are your own person.Learn to evaluate yourself instead of other people doing it for you.

* Do not try to please everyone at the same time.

* Develop your own standards that are not dependent on the approval of others.

* Do not be afraid of change.Take control of your own life.

* Continual improvement with the ability to accept yourself for what you are is a must.

* Focus on how you feel about your own aspirations rather than the aspirations of others.

* No risk-No gain-Be an adventurous.

Time Deposit is Money Deposit

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* If you had a bank that credited your account each morning with $86,400.

* That carried over no balance from day-to-day.

* Allowed you to keep no cash in your account.

* And every evening cancelled whatever part of the amount you had failed to use during the day.

* What would you do?

* Draw out every dollar everyday.

* Of-course you use it to your advantage.

* Well,you have a such bank and its name is Time.

* Every morning it credits you with 86,400 seconds.

* Every night it rules off as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose.

* It carries over no balance.

* It allows no overdrafts.

* If you fail to use the day's deposit, the loss is yours.

* There is no going back.

* There is no drawing against tomorrow.

* It is upto each of us to invest this precious fund of hours, minutes and seconds in order to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success.

* Time is money.As you don't waste money, you must not waste time also.Money will come back but time will not come back.So take care of your precious time.

12 Tips To Boost Your Self-Confidence

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Believe that your dreams can come true.

* Set your goals realistic enough that you can achieve them.

* Always expect the best by optimistic approach.

* Take action.Do it now or never.

* Learn something new to be multi-skilled professional.

* Move out of your comfort zone and feel more expansive.

* Celebrate each time you tick off an action step.

* Spend time with someone who believes in you.

* Never give up by doing your best.

* Do what you love and love what you do.

* Boost self-esteem to boost your self-confidence.

* Be happy and contended within yourself to be self-confident.

The ABC of Happiness and Success

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* A-Attitude-I can do it positive attitude.

* B-Believe in yourself for self-confidence.

* C-Courage-Face problems courageously.

* D-Devotion-Study and work with devotion and dedication.

* E-Enthusiasm is a must for happiness and success.

* F-Fun-Enjoy each moment of life to the maximum extent.

* G-Goal-oriented-Have well-defined goals.

* H-Hard work-Work hard for your dreams.

* I-Improve your knowledge, skills and attitude.

* J-Just do it and be an achiever.

* K-Be kind and it always pays.

* L-Learn lifelong to be multi-skilled professional.

* M-Motivate yourself everyday for possibilities.

* N-Say NO to time-wasting activities.

* O-Observe happy and successful people and follow them.

* P-Plan your future and execute.

* Q-Quitters never win and winners never quit.

* R-Recharge your batteries to achieve your goals.

* S-Seek opportunities for progress and prosperity.

* T-Time is money, don’t waste it.

* U-Understand basic concepts for mastering any subject.

* V-Visualize victory and work towards it.

* W-Strong will power prevails.

* X-Xtra effort gives you an edge over others.

* Y-Yearn for more knowledge and skills.

* Z-Zoom your life towards happiness and success.

How is your unique selling point-USP ?

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

Answer the following 25 questions.

*Are you good at talking to people face-to-face? Yes or No.

*Are you good at talking to people on the phone? Yes or No.

*Are you good at taking decisions? Yes or No

*Are You good at listening to other people's problems? Yes or No

*Are you good at advising and helping people? Yes or No

*Are you good at persuading people to your point of view? Yes or No

*Are you good at solving intellectual problems? Yes or No

*Are you good at solving practical problems? Yes or No

*Are you good at organising your time and prioritizing your workload? Yes or No

*Are you good at meeting deadlines? Yes or No

*Are you good at designing on paper with your hands or with the aid of computer? Yes or No

*Are you good at building things to someone else's specifications? Yes or No

*Are you good at IT literacy-knowledge of software, hardware and networking? Yes or No

*Are you good at working flexibly within a team? Yes or No

*Are you good at taking responsibility for your own actions and your own work? Yes or No

*Are you good at writing business letters and reports? Yes or No

*Are you good at creative writing? Yes or No

*Are you able to work on your own without supervision? Yes or No

*Are you able to follow instructions given by others? Yes or No

*Are you able to delegate work to others by motivating them? Yes or No

*Are you good at explaining things to other people? Yes or No

*Are you able to pay attention to details? Yes or No

*Are you able to work under pressure? Yes or No

*Are you able to use your own initiatives? Yes or No

*Are you able to learn tasks or assimulate information quickly? Yes or No

Persistence Is Success Giving Up Is Failure

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Persistence is a winning ingredient and giving up is a losing ingredient.

* The opposite of persistence is giving up and this is the norm for many people.

* Every invention in our personal lives is the result of persistence.

* Edison made thousands of attempts to produce a light bulb.

* Fleming's discovery of penicillin was due to persistence.

* There are now drugs that not only control but cure cancer.Once again, this is due to persistence.

* The list is endless, but all have been achieved through hundreds of attempts and by getting it wrong until a solution was found.

* There is a difference between stubborn and persistent.

* Being persistent is positive and constructive attempting some new action or a new approach.

* Being stubborn is negative and destructive attempting the same old action and old approach.

* If you want something, whatever it may be, persistence will prevail.

* Be persistent and avoid giving up by mastering rejection.

* Are you persistent?????

Welcome Difficulties Not Welcome To Difficulties

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Difficulties are blessings.

* Difficulties are opportunities.

* Difficulties are ultimate motivators.

* Difficulties are energizers.

* Difficulties are vitalizers.

* Difficulties are a part of life.

* Difficulties are inspirational.

* Difficulties are inescapable.

* Difficulties make you stronger and more determined.

* Difficulties sharpens your skills and strengthen your nerves.

* Difficulties empower you by re-enforcing your will power.

* Difficulties awaken the giant within you.

* Render difficulties impotent by not being affected by them.

* People are successful only because of difficulties.

* No difficulties-No efforts-No success.