Thursday, August 29, 2013

An Idle Student's Brain is Devil's Workshop


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*Study is student’s most dependable function.

*If you are weak, study.

*If you are average, study.

*If you are above average, study.

*If you are excellent, study.

*If you are outstanding, study.

*If failure discourages you, study.

*Is success encourages you, study.

*If you have been burdened with unfair responsibilities, study.

*You have been entrusted with deserving responsibilities, study.

*You have not been successful, study.

*You have been successful, study.

*You have not been awarded, study.

*When dreams are shattered, study.

*When faith falters, study.

*When future appears bleak, study.

*When hope seems dead, study.

*Study is the greatest stress-buster.

*Study is the mightiest morale-booster.

*Study is the best boredom-beater.

*Study is the equally effective disease-fighter.

*If you neglect your study, you invite worry, fear, doubt and debt.

*Study is the greatest solution for all problems.

*So study, study and study sincerely.

Are you an Ideal Student or an Idle Student ?


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Sunday, August 25, 2013

Twelve Ways for a Divorce Proof Marriage



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* Marriage can be divorce proof if the following ways are followed.

* Divorce is the worst action. Say No to divorce at any cost and any circumstances. Divorce decision is taken under angry condition. Angry decisions are always wrong. Hence avoid it. You must tolerate each other to get rid of divorce. The Almighty tolerates us though we commit many mistakes. Why can’t we tolerate ? 

* With the changing times, relationships tend to fail even before they blossom into healthy ones, and as a result, divorce has become rampant.


* What couples do not realise is that many of those divorces could be avoided.


* It is suggested that both partners should talk more often, more openly and more honestly with each other about their feelings.


* According to a lifestyle based website for women, couples who have sex atleast once in a week are less likely to divorce. They should practice new positions, new locations and experiment with role playing.


* Talk to a life coach when you notice a recurring pattern that causes tension.


* Expert suggested that couples who are parents to young children should spend time together regularly.


*Increase the amount of non-sexual touch in your relationship, like holding hands during date nights or hugging each other after returning home from work.


* Couples who have more non-sexual touch were reported to be happier with their relationships. 


* You cannot expect your partner to spend time with you always, so going out with friends is also important. Couples who spend more time with other couples were also reported to have happier marriages. 


* The last way to have a divorce proof marriage is to practise forgiveness. Experts said that even if your partner has been unfaithful, it does not have to end the marriage if you choose to forgive .


             Is your marriage divorce proof ?


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Wednesday, January 30, 2013

25 Simple Ways for Lifelong Happiness


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* Accept your past happily by forget and forgive policy.(If you don't forgive others, The Almighty will not forgive you). Accept changes in society and start living in present. No revenge please.

* Accept your family, relatives, friends, boss, sub-ordinates as they are without expecting any return.

* If you expect any return and you don't get, you get upset and complain, criticize, fight with them and you are unhappy, instead expect the more return from The Almighty to be happier.

* Be with parent throughout the life for happiness. Otherwise no peace of mind, no life satisfaction.

* Be Happy with what you have and progress. Compete with others honestly.

* Believe that The Almighty will solve all your problems one by one, then why to worry?

* Talk more to like-minded people and talk less to unlike minded people, but don't break relations.

* Change yourself first then try to change others by actions not by words. (No Lecturing)

* Earn enough money to be independent as enough money not excess money is important to be happy. (Excess money can be donated to educate poor students to create jobs to get rid of poverty)

* Take care of your health by walking, exercising, breathing, thinking positively and healthy food as good health is important to be happy. Love what you do and do what you love.

* Don't hate anybody in the world as everybody is created by The Almighty like you.

* Talk to people politely and smilingly without hurting their feelings to win their hearts.

* Going to religious places helps but as you come out you again change back. Development of spirituality is more permanent to be happy. Your hand must be a Giver not a Taker.

* Develop spirituality by increasing contentment, tolerance, forgiveness, kindness, love, and attitude.

* Develop spirituality by reducing anger, backbiting, greed, fear, expectations, ego, uncontrolled sex, over attachment, jealousy, hate, revenge and instant reactions. (Be Proactive not Reactive)

* Don't repent in life. Accept the decision of The Almighty. Be spiritual for lifelong happiness.

* Happy and sad days are just a routine in everybody's life. They come and go like day and night but don't forget The Almighty in happy days to be happy in sad days and working hard hopefully.

* Thank the Almighty and the people in case of success or failure, profit or loss. Accept Challenges.

* Keep yourself busy by smart hard work to achieve something to be happy and satisfied.

* Don’t borrow money except in case of emergency as it spoils human relations.

* Be flexible to solve any problem. Be a problem solver not a problem creator.

* Don’t compare to be happy as everybody has strong and weak points. Nobody is perfect.

* Spend time and money for social service as it is a source of happiness and The Almighty blessings.

* Visualize good thoughts, good actions and good results to be a winner.

* The biggest regret in life is not saving money. Hence save it for lifelong happiness.

If you are happy, you are healthy and you can serve yourself, your parent, your family, your country and the whole world. Now can you promise to be happy, healthy and helpful lifelong?


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Thursday, January 17, 2013

What is Confidence? (The Man who has confidence in himself gains the confidence of others.)


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Confidence is

• Believing in your own ability.
• Having the courage to achieve what you want.
• Believing that you are capable as the next person.
• Being secure and relaxed about yourself.
• Having the ability to act confidently when you feel low.
• Acknowledging when you have made a mistake.
• Not worrying about what other people think of you.
• Not letting anyone intimidate you.
• Having the ability to talk to anyone about anything.
• Feeling happy and contented within you.
• Having the ability to live for the moment.
• Having the ability to focus on the future.

You are confident if

• You love life and enjoy.
• You enjoy meeting new people.
• You walk into a room full of strangers and feel instantly comfortable.
• You enjoy mixing with all types of people.
• You love social situations as you get to meet new people.
• You think positively about yourself.
• You believe the best is yet to come in your life.
• You fail the job interview, take feedback from interviewer,
learn from it and try again.
• You are keen to learn as much about the world as you can.
• You admire people who strive for their goals even if they
don’t achieve them always.

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Saturday, December 22, 2012

A to Z Tips for People Management




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A- Align your staff objectives with corporate objectives.
B- Build trust and collaborative culture.
C- Communicate, coach and create a thriving work environment.
D- Develop talent at all levels not just for the chosen few.
E- Energize your staff to achieve corporate goals and to take responsibility.
F- Facilitate knowledge sharing within your organization.
G- Generate enthusiasm and commitment through your leadership.
H- Hierarchical structures should be abolished.
I- Inform, invest, innovate and above all inspire.
J- Justify your actions and decisions.
K- Know your staff and yourself.
L- Lead, learn and leverage your staff competencies.
M- Measure, monitor and motivate.
N- Never manage personnel, manage people.
O- Open communication contributes to developing trust.
P- Psychological contract should be respected.
Q- Quest for learning should be supported.
R- Recruit and retain your staff.
S- Skill should be continuously updated.
T- Trust is the main driver of managing people effectively.
U- Understand the importance of managing people effectively.
V- Values and vision influence your staff behavior.
W- Win your staff by your action.
X- X theory assumptions should be eradicated.
Y- Your conviction and commitment will determine your success.
Z- Zeal and zest of your staff should be supported by providing opportunities to perform well.

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Wednesday, December 5, 2012

NRI children in India under social pressure



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• A number of teenagers whose parents have sent them back to India from the Middle East to pursue studies here are finding it tough to adjust to the new environment with several of them suffering from depression and adjustment disorder.

• Separation from parents, lack of emotional bonding with local guardians, friends and high expectations from all are driving the children to the edge.

• As many of them also have enough money on hand, they indulge in unrestricted activities.

• Counsellors here say they are getting cases of such teenagers turning irritable and hostile with some of them even developing suicidal tendencies.

• Counsellors point out that estrangement from parents is the primary reason for a change in behaviour of these youngsters.

• There is a trouble when children are unable to meet the high expectations of parents.

• Children also have copious amount of cash at their disposal which is worrisome.

• Academics points out that grades of many youngsters have tumbled due to lack of accountability and the absence of counseling at home.

• The clocking of academic misdemeanours of these students by their guardians comes across as a shock to the parents.

• Guardians cannot be strict as parents, they fail to be objective at times.

• Sometimes single parents too are unable to cope with the pressure of raising a child on their own and seek counseling themselves before bringing the child to the counsellor.

• Parents and children are supposed to be together for better emotional bonding, attachment, love and affection as out of sight is out of mind.

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Sunday, November 18, 2012

An open letter to youth (Tu Shaheen hai Basaira kar pahadoun ki chatanou par)



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•Allama Mohammad Iqbal motivated the youth to bring revolution.

•Why did Iqbal choose the eagle (Shaheen) to motivate the youth?

•Why not use a symbol of lion or tiger or some other fast and furious animal?

•What distinguishes the eagle from other is its:

1. Sharp Vision

2. Courage

3. Daring Attitude

4. Love of freedom and action

5. Struggle

6. Devotion

7. Pro activity

8. Dedication

9. Self-Reliance

10.Ability to soar up into the air and rule the sky.

•Youth are the powerhouse of energy.

•Youth power is unbeatable and irrevocable.

•Youth must accept the challenges of life.

•Direct the energy of youth in constructive channels that lead to development and progress.

•Empower the youth for better future and brighter tomorrow.

•Youth are the greatest wealth and strength of any nation that have immensely contributed to nation building.

•The fresh minds have charisma to bring change.

•Iqbal’s eagle yearns for change.

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