Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Top Ten Tips For Forgiveness


What Mr.Mohammed Masood Mohiuddin,Editor,Proactive Personality Developer says about forgiveness.

*If you forgive others, you are forgiven by Almighty and you get peace of mind.


*If you don't forgive others,your prayers will not be accepted by Almighty .

* If you forgive others, you are a winner.

* If you don’t forgive others, you are a loser.


* If you forgive others, you will not carry emotional weight from the grudge and your blood pressure will be normal.


* If you forgive others you have to accept the things you can’t change and change the things you can.


* The person with whom you are engaged in conflict would either welcome your forgiveness or would forgive you too.

*Forgiveness does not mean excusing bad behavior ,rather it means that you are prepared to move forward and let go your bitterness towards the other person.

* You can’t change the fact that the conflict occurred but you can change your response to the conflict .

* Be Bold to Learn Forget and Forgive.

Ten Top Tips For Confidence



What late Mr.Mohammed Ghouse Mohiuddin(G.M.Uruj),Editor, Confidence , English Weekly used to say about Confidence.

By Mr.Mohammed Masood Mohiuddin(Younger Brother), Editor Proactive Personality Developer, English Monthly.

* The person who has confidence in himself or herself gains the confidence of others.

* Having the courage to achieve what you want is confidence.

* Believing that you are as capable as next person is confidence.

* Having the ability to act confidently when you are feeling low is confidence.

* Acknowledging when you have make a mistake is confidence .

* Not worrying about what others people think of you is confidence .

* Not letting anyone intimidate you is confidence.

*Having the ability to talk to anyone about anything is confidence .

* Feeling happy and contended within yourself is confidence.

*Banishing self- doubt and boosting self esteem is confidence.

Ten Top Tips For Positive Thinking




What late Mr.& Mrs.Mohammed Khadir Mohiuddin Ahmed,Editor ,
Cooperative Herald, English Weekly used to say about positive thinking.

By Mr. Mohammed Masood Mohiuddin(Son), Editor Proactive Personality Developer,English Monthly.

* Positive Thinking aims to programme your attitude to attract success.

* Positive Thinking is very important because if your mind is not positively charged,success will not be attracted to it

* Positive Thinking awakens the sleeping energy within you.

*Positive Thinking turns your goals into realities .
*Positive Thinking enables you to control your time.

*Positive Thinking enables you to handle worry and fear .

*Positive Thinking enables you to plan intelligently .

*Positive Thinking enables you to learn from failures .

*Positive Thinking inspires and motivates you .

*Positive Thinking builds your confidence and makes you a winner
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Friday, August 15, 2008

Ten Tips For Happy Married Life




M.M.M.Ahmed,Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Never both be angry at the same time.

* Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.

* If one of you has to win an arguement let it be your mate.

* If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.

* Never bring up mistakes of the past.

* Neglect the whole world rather than each other.

* Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.

* Say atleast one complimentary thing to your life's partner everyday.

* When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness.

* It takes two to make a quarrel and the one is the wrong is the one who does the most talking.

Saturday, August 2, 2008

25 Things Parent Should Say to A child



M.M.M.AhmedEditor,Proactive Personality Developer

* It is such a blessing to be your mom.

* You're an incredible person.

* You did that so well.

* If more kids were like you,the world would be a better place.

* It's so good to be with you.

* You're the best.

* You are such a nice person.

* You're learning fast.

* You mean so much to me.

* You're very bright.

* You have unlimited potential.

* You're on the right track now.

* You're getting the hang of it.

* That's the best you're ever done.

* You're getting better everyday.

* You're such a quick learner.

* I appreciate your attitude.

* I can tell you are trying.

* I knew you could do it.

* Keep up the good work.

* You are a real topper.

* You did a great job.

* I believe in you.

* You're going to go far in life.

* If someone lined up all the children in the world and told me I could pick any one I wanted, I'd Choose you.

25 Things Parent Should Never Say To A Child


M.M.M.Ahmed,Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* You're just no good.

* You'll never amount to anything.

* You got what you deserved.

* What's wrong with you?

* When are you going to act your age?

* Can't you do anything right?

* I've had it with you.

* All you ever do it cause trouble.

* Just wait until you have kids.

* When will you ever learn?

* You are stupid.

* You are lazy.

* Who do you think you are?

* You'll be the death of me yet.

* Haven't I taught you anything?

* You need to have your head examined.

* Don't you care about anything?

* What makes you think you're so special?

* Don't you ever listen?

* When are you going to start obeying me?.

* If I've told you once,I've told you a million times.

* I can't wait until you're gone.

* Why can't you be more like your sister?

* You are so much trouble.

* I don't know why I had kids.