a) Smile b) Be open c) Forward lean
d) Handshake e) Eye contact f) Nodding
Remember, you never get a second chance to make a first impression.
The decision to issue American visa is taken within first two minutes of interview.
2. Smiling people fly on the sky like Eagles and frowning people sit on the ground like Ducks. Smile or frown ? Choice is yours.
If you smile all will smile with you. If you frown nobody will frown with you.
3. Action is life and inaction is death. Are you alive or dead ? Choice is yours. Keep yourself busy to keep your body and mind active.
4. You can escape by cheating once or twice or thrice but not always. One day you will be caught red handed and you cannot save your face. Honesty or Dishonesty ? Choice is yours.
5. You are fearless if you speak truth. You are fearful if you lie. Fearless or Fearful ? Choice is yours.
6. No Divorce (Breaking relation with wife), no Qulaw (Breaking relation with husband) and no Aaq (Breaking relation with child). All these are the worst actions. We must tolerate each other for happy life. The Almighty tolerates us though we commit many mistakes. Tolerance or Intolerance ? Choice is yours.
7. There is no retirement. Death is the retirement. Continue social service till the last breath to please The Almighty and people. Please or Displease ? choice is yours.
8. Good websites take you to Heaven by increasing your knowledge and making you better human being. Bad websites take you to Hell by spoiling your health and making you worse human being. Heaven or hell. Choice is yours.
9. Avoid three Ws a) Wine b) Weed c) Woman (Bad) for good health and good character which leads to Heaven. Heaven or Hell ? Choice is yours.
10. Laziness is not a habit, it is a disease leads to stress and depression which leads to other diseases. No exercise is also a disease. Exercise is good for stress management and depression control to avoid suicide. Laziness or Exercise ? Choice is yours. …….to be continued in next issue.
11. Do not say to parents from hoon to haan even if they are wrong as there is no replacement for them. Mother is the foundation of love and father is the wall of protection. Love and protection both are essential.
12.Higher education is as important as experience and experience is as important as higher education. Acquire both to become a VIP (Very Important Person). VIP or Non-VIP ? Choice is yours.
13.Proactive means taking responsibility of your life without blaming parents or circumstances or conditions and believing that you are “response-able” for your actions. Proactive or Reactive ? Choice is yours.
14.Playing and watching any game make you healthy. Just watching without playing makes your body painful due to lack of blood circulation. Players get medals whereas watchers require pain-killers which are actually kidney-killers lead to dialysis. Medals or Pain killers ? Choice is yours.
15.Be well-built by exercise and healthy food to defend yourself or others in case of emergency. Defensive or Undefensive ? choice is yours.
16.Be above the crowd not among the crowd. It is not important whom you know but it is important who knows you. Above the crowd or Among the crowd ? Choice is yours.
17.Be well-educated, well-dressed and well-groomed, well-motivated, well-organized and well-disciplined to command the respect and love of the society to be a charismatic personality.
18.Do not send sick wife to her parents’ house to be served by them. Take care of her as she takes care of you when you are sick. You can send her when she is healthy to serve them. Share happy and sad days together as you both are made for each other by The Almighty.
19.Do your best to achieve your goal and the rest is with The Almighty. Accept the result happily whatever it is and thank The Almighty.
20.Use elders for their wisdom and youngsters for their energy. Both are necessary for success. Success or Failure ? Choice is yours.
21.A bird sitting on the tree has no fear of falling… not because the branch is solid but because it has faith in its wings. What about you ? A big Question Mark!!!
22.Ask yourself what next ? Don’t sit idle as an idle brain is controlled by the devil to take wrong decision to repent later. Keep yourself busy in constructive activities for Heaven not in destructive activities for Hell. Heaven or Hell ? Choice is yours.
23.Be moderate in all matters by good money management. Neither a spendthrift nor a miser for lifelong prosperity. Prosperity or Poverty ? Choice is yours.
24.Do not ignore your daughters and sisters. They love you beyond limits and their love is next to parents’ love. They are your well-wishers.
Are you their well-wisher ?
25.Walk the talk not talk the walk. Be an example and a role model for others. Hope for the positive results but be prepared to face the negative results. …….to be continued in next issue.
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*If you don’t change today you will never change tomorrow as tomorrow never comes. Hence take the resolution to change today.
*It is better to change today than to repent tomorrow.
*The whole world changes very fast, why don’t you change yourself accordingly.
*Do not be out-dated. Be up-to-date by changing yourself.
*If you don’t change yourself, then nobody in the world can change you except The Almighty.
*Change for better is better than change for worse. Go for good, better and best. Do not go for bad, worse and worst.
*Change is creative, innovative and different from others to be successful.
*You may or may not change others but sure you can change yourself. Continuous change is continuous improvement for life-long.
*Change is a success and stagnation is a failure.
*If you are strong you can change yourself and others for better. If you are weak you can neither change yourself nor others for better.
*Step by step change management takes you to the step by step success ladder to the top.
*Change is an adventure, an interesting act and a bold step. Bring the change in yourself what you want in the society.
Can you change today ?
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Mobile-09985211925 M.M.M Ahmed(Transforming the Dreams into Reality) Editor, Proactive Personality Developer Blog Inspirational and Motivational with Interesting Pictures Akber Bagh,New Malakpet,Hyderabad-India Seeking and Spreading the knowledge please The Almighty. *Study is student’s most dependable function.
*If you are weak, study.
*If you are average, study.
*If you are above average, study.
*If you are excellent, study.
*If you are outstanding, study.
*If failure discourages you, study.
*Is success encourages you, study.
*If you have been burdened with unfair responsibilities, study.
*You have been entrusted with deserving responsibilities, study.
*You have not been successful, study.
*You have been successful, study.
*You have not been awarded, study.
*When dreams are shattered, study.
*When faith falters, study.
*When future appears bleak, study.
*When hope seems dead, study.
*Study is the greatest stress-buster.
*Study is the mightiest morale-booster.
*Study is the best boredom-beater.
*Study is the equally effective disease-fighter.
*If you neglect your study, you invite worry, fear, doubt and debt.
*Study is the greatest solution for all problems.
*So study, study and study sincerely.
Are you an Ideal Student or an Idle Student ?
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* Marriage can be divorce proof if the following ways are followed.
* Divorce is the worst action. Say No to divorce at any cost and any circumstances. Divorce decision is taken under angry condition. Angry decisions are always wrong. Hence avoid it. You must tolerate each other to get rid of divorce. The Almighty tolerates us though we commit many mistakes. Why can’t we tolerate ?
* With the changing times, relationships tend to fail even before they blossom into healthy ones, and as a result, divorce has become rampant.
* What couples do not realise is that many of those divorces could be avoided.
* It is suggested that both partners should talk more often, more openly and more honestly with each other about their feelings.
* According to a lifestyle based website for women, couples who have sex atleast once in a week are less likely to divorce. They should practice new positions, new locations and experiment with role playing.
* Talk to a life coach when you notice a recurring pattern that causes tension.
* Expert suggested that couples who are parents to young children should spend time together regularly.
*Increase the amount of non-sexual touch in your relationship, like holding hands during date nights or hugging each other after returning home from work.
* Couples who have more non-sexual touch were reported to be happier with their relationships.
* You cannot expect your partner to spend time with you always, so going out with friends is also important. Couples who spend more time with other couples were also reported to have happier marriages.
* The last way to have a divorce proof marriage is to practise forgiveness. Experts said that even if your partner has been unfaithful, it does not have to end the marriage if you choose to forgive .
Is your marriage divorce proof ?
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* Accept your past happily by forget and forgive policy.(If you don't forgive others, The Almighty will not forgive you). Accept changes in society and start living in present. No revenge please.
* Accept your family, relatives, friends, boss, sub-ordinates as they are without expecting any return.
* If you expect any return and you don't get, you get upset and complain, criticize, fight with them and you are unhappy, instead expect the more return from The Almighty to be happier.
* Be with parent throughout the life for happiness. Otherwise no peace of mind, no life satisfaction.
* Be Happy with what you have and progress. Compete with others honestly.
* Believe that The Almighty will solve all your problems one by one, then why to worry?
* Talk more to like-minded people and talk less to unlike minded people, but don't break relations.
* Change yourself first then try to change others by actions not by words. (No Lecturing)
* Earn enough money to be independent as enough money not excess money is important to be happy. (Excess money can be donated to educate poor students to create jobs to get rid of poverty)
* Take care of your health by walking, exercising, breathing, thinking positively and healthy food as good health is important to be happy. Love what you do and do what you love.
* Don't hate anybody in the world as everybody is created by The Almighty like you.
* Talk to people politely and smilingly without hurting their feelings to win their hearts.
* Going to religious places helps but as you come out you again change back. Development of spirituality is more permanent to be happy. Your hand must be a Giver not a Taker.
* Develop spirituality by increasing contentment, tolerance, forgiveness, kindness, love, and attitude.
* Develop spirituality by reducing anger, backbiting, greed, fear, expectations, ego, uncontrolled sex, over attachment, jealousy, hate, revenge and instant reactions. (Be Proactive not Reactive)
* Don't repent in life. Accept the decision of The Almighty. Be spiritual for lifelong happiness.
* Happy and sad days are just a routine in everybody's life. They come and go like day and night but don't forget The Almighty in happy days to be happy in sad days and working hard hopefully.
* Thank the Almighty and the people in case of success or failure, profit or loss. Accept Challenges.
* Keep yourself busy by smart hard work to achieve something to be happy and satisfied.
* Don’t borrow money except in case of emergency as it spoils human relations.
* Be flexible to solve any problem. Be a problem solver not a problem creator.
* Don’t compare to be happy as everybody has strong and weak points. Nobody is perfect.
* Spend time and money for social service as it is a source of happiness and The Almighty blessings.
* Visualize good thoughts, good actions and good results to be a winner.
* The biggest regret in life is not saving money. Hence save it for lifelong happiness.
If you are happy, you are healthy and you can serve yourself, your parent, your family, your country and the whole world. Now can you promise to be happy, healthy and helpful lifelong?
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Confidence is
• Believing in your own ability.
• Having the courage to achieve what you want.
• Believing that you are capable as the next person.
• Being secure and relaxed about yourself.
• Having the ability to act confidently when you feel low.
• Acknowledging when you have made a mistake.
• Not worrying about what other people think of you.
• Not letting anyone intimidate you.
• Having the ability to talk to anyone about anything.
• Feeling happy and contented within you.
• Having the ability to live for the moment.
• Having the ability to focus on the future.
You are confident if
• You love life and enjoy.
• You enjoy meeting new people.
• You walk into a room full of strangers and feel instantly comfortable.
• You enjoy mixing with all types of people.
• You love social situations as you get to meet new people.
• You think positively about yourself.
• You believe the best is yet to come in your life.
• You fail the job interview, take feedback from interviewer,
learn from it and try again.
• You are keen to learn as much about the world as you can.
• You admire people who strive for their goals even if they
don’t achieve them always.
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To my out-spoken elder brother for his journalistic skills. To my beloved wife for her supporting skills.
To my International Marketing General Manager elder son for his Marketing and Strategic management skills.
To my innovative elder daughter-in-law for her computer skills
To my Hafiz-e-Quran son-in-law for his Gracious Quran Memorizing skills.
To my Religious daughter for her Islamic Knowledge.
To my genius younger son for his Data Scientist Skills.
To my intelligent younger daughter-in-law for her Academic Excellence
To my loveliest grand daughter for her loveliest actions.
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