Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Consequences Of Bad Human Relations


M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Lack of Communication

* Lack of Trust

* Lack of Credibility

* Stress

* Irritation

*Close-mindedness

* No team spirit

* Poor Self-Esteem

* Suspicion

* Isolation

* Loss Of Productivity

* Poor Health

* Distrust

* Anger

* Prejudice

* Conflict

* Frustration

* Unhappiness

* Break Down Of Morale

* Uncooperative Behaviour

Monday, March 29, 2010

10 Benefits of Miswak



M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Miswak strengthens gums.

* Miswak effectively removes plague and yellowness of teeth.

* Miswak fights tooth decay.

* Miswak cleans and brightens teeth.

* Miswak removes bad odour.

* Miswak improves the sense of taste.

* Miswak sharpens the memory and intelligence.

* Miswak assists in digestion.

* Miswak improves the eye sight.

* Miswak improves the health and luster of the face of the continual user.

* Do you use Miswak?

* If not, start using Miswak right now.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Beware of sex in offices - 10 Tips



M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* No flirting of any sort with team members of the opposite sex.

* No sexual comments or jokes of any kind.

* No casual touching.

* If disciplining a staff member of the opposite sex, make sure you have a witness present.

* Beware of late one-to-one meetings with staff members of the opposite sex.

* Definitely no sexual relationship with team members.

* All comments or jokes about sensitive issues such as gender, race and region are unacceptable.

* Disapprove immediately you hear any such comments or jokes from team members.

* Don't spoil yourself and others by indulging in illegal sex as you will be punished severely here and in the hereafter.

* If money is lost, nothing is lost. If health is lost, something is lost but if character is lost everything is lost.

Friday, March 12, 2010

Are You Socially Intelligent? 12 Tips



M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Accept others for what they are.

* Take an interest in other people.

* Understand people's thoughts, feelings and intentions.

* Have a social conscience and take interest and curiosity about the world.

* Think before speaking and doing.

* Make fair and considered judgments.Don't make snap judgments.

* Do not be afraid to admit your mistakes.

* Be frank and honest with yourself and others.

* Be good at taking the perspective of other people.

* Be sensitive to other people's needs and desires.

* Adapt well and quickly to different social situations.

* Be open to new ideas, values and view points.

Friday, March 5, 2010

12 Tips To Be An Adventurous


M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Evaluate your talents and play to your strength by taking calculated risk.

* Consider risk-taking as a possible opportunity rather than an enterprise that is likely to result in failure.

* Do not let the past rule your life.Develop the confidence to move on and make choices.

* Give yourself credit for everything you try to achieve even if you do not achieve your goal.

* Do not worry if you are not perfect as nobody is perfect.

* You are your own person.Learn to evaluate yourself instead of other people doing it for you.

* Do not try to please everyone at the same time.

* Develop your own standards that are not dependent on the approval of others.

* Do not be afraid of change.Take control of your own life.

* Continual improvement with the ability to accept yourself for what you are is a must.

* Focus on how you feel about your own aspirations rather than the aspirations of others.

* No risk-No gain-Be an adventurous.

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Time Deposit is Money Deposit



M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* If you had a bank that credited your account each morning with $86,400.

* That carried over no balance from day-to-day.

* Allowed you to keep no cash in your account.

* And every evening cancelled whatever part of the amount you had failed to use during the day.

* What would you do?

* Draw out every dollar everyday.

* Of-course you use it to your advantage.

* Well,you have a such bank and its name is Time.

* Every morning it credits you with 86,400 seconds.

* Every night it rules off as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose.

* It carries over no balance.

* It allows no overdrafts.

* If you fail to use the day's deposit, the loss is yours.

* There is no going back.

* There is no drawing against tomorrow.

* It is upto each of us to invest this precious fund of hours, minutes and seconds in order to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success.

* Time is money.As you don't waste money, you must not waste time also.Money will come back but time will not come back.So take care of your precious time.

Saturday, February 13, 2010

12 Tips To Boost Your Self-Confidence


M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Believe that your dreams can come true.

* Set your goals realistic enough that you can achieve them.

* Always expect the best by optimistic approach.

* Take action.Do it now or never.

* Learn something new to be multi-skilled professional.

* Move out of your comfort zone and feel more expansive.

* Celebrate each time you tick off an action step.

* Spend time with someone who believes in you.

* Never give up by doing your best.

* Do what you love and love what you do.

* Boost self-esteem to boost your self-confidence.

* Be happy and contended within yourself to be self-confident.