Saturday, November 20, 2010

15 Tips to Beat the Ego to Beat the Pride


M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

•Ego means I am more important than others and what I believe is true.

•Ego means my point of view is more important than that of others so I am trapped within my point of view and I become arrogant and stubborn.

•When ego prevails in my mind, I begin to compete with everyone for everything, no matter what the cost. I do not see beyond self-gratification.

•Ego means I am right, others are wrong. I am perfect , others are not perfect.

•Ego means I don’t commit any mistakes and others do commit mistakes.

•Ego means I know everything and others know nothing.

•Ego means I can challenge anybody and nobody can challenge me.

•Ego means I can do whatever I want and others cannot do whatever they want.

•Ego means I am independent and I don’t depend on others but others are dependant, They depend on me. They cant do anything without me.

•Ego means I am powerful, Might is right but others are powerless.

•Ego means I am self-established and others are not self-established.

•Ego means I don't wish others and I expect others to wish me first

•Drop the “ I ” and live in the “ We ” to be happy and let others be happy to beat ego as ego leads to pride and pride kisses the ground.

•The best way to get rid of ego is start taking initiative in wishing others with a wonderful smile.

•All ego,pride and self-boasting are for The Almighty-The Creator not for the human-beings- the creatures.

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