250 Proactive Thoughts

1. Six steps for powerful first impression are

a) Smile b) Be open c) Forward lean
d) Handshake e) Eye contact f) Nodding

Remember, you never get a second chance to make a first impression.
The decision to issue American visa is taken within first two minutes of interview.

2. Smiling people fly on the sky like Eagles and frowning people sit on the ground like Ducks. Smile or frown ? Choice is yours.
If you smile all will smile with you. If you frown nobody will frown with you.

3. Action is life and inaction is death. Are you alive or dead ? Choice is yours. Keep yourself busy to keep your body and mind active.

4. You can escape by cheating once or twice or thrice but not always. One day you will be caught red handed and you cannot save your face. Honesty or Dishonesty ? Choice is yours.

5. You are fearless if you speak truth. You are fearful if you lie. Fearless or Fearful ? Choice is yours.

6. No Divorce (Breaking relation with wife), no Qulaw (Breaking relation with husband) and no Aaq (Breaking relation with child). All these are the worst actions. We must tolerate each other for happy life. The Almighty tolerates us though we commit many mistakes. Tolerance or Intolerance ? Choice is yours.

7. There is no retirement. Death is the retirement. Continue social service till the last breath to please The Almighty and people. Please or Displease ? choice is yours.

8. Good websites take you to Heaven by increasing your knowledge and making you better human being. Bad websites take you to Hell by spoiling your health and making you worse human being. Heaven or hell. Choice is yours.

9. Avoid three Ws a) Wine b) Weed c) Woman (Bad) for good health and good character which leads to Heaven. Heaven or Hell ? Choice is yours.

10. Laziness is not a habit, it is a disease leads to stress and depression which leads to other diseases. No exercise is also a disease. Exercise is good for stress management and depression control to avoid suicide. Laziness or Exercise ? Choice is yours. …….to be continued in next issue.

11. Do not say to parents from hoon to haan even if they are wrong as there is no replacement for them. Mother is the foundation of love and father is the wall of protection. Love and protection both are essential.

12.Higher education is as important as experience and experience is as important as higher education. Acquire both to become a VIP (Very Important Person). VIP or Non-VIP ? Choice is yours.

13.Proactive means taking responsibility of your life without blaming parents or circumstances or conditions and believing that you are “response-able” for your actions. Proactive or Reactive ? Choice is yours.

14.Playing and watching any game make you healthy. Just watching without playing makes your body painful due to lack of blood circulation. Players get medals whereas watchers require pain-killers which are actually kidney-killers lead to dialysis. Medals or Pain killers ? Choice is yours.

15.Be well-built by exercise and healthy food to defend yourself or others in case of emergency. Defensive or Undefensive ? choice is yours.

16.Be above the crowd not among the crowd. It is not important whom you know but it is important who knows you. Above the crowd or Among the crowd ? Choice is yours.

17.Be well-educated, well-dressed and well-groomed, well-motivated, well-organized and well-disciplined to command the respect and love of the society to be a charismatic personality.

18.Do not send sick wife to her parents’ house to be served by them. Take care of her as she takes care of you when you are sick. You can send her when she is healthy to serve them. Share happy and sad days together as you both are made for each other by The Almighty.

19.Do your best to achieve your goal and the rest is with The Almighty. Accept the result happily whatever it is and thank The Almighty.

20.Use elders for their wisdom and youngsters for their energy. Both are necessary for success. Success or Failure ? Choice is yours.

21.A bird sitting on the tree has no fear of falling… not because the branch is solid but because it has faith in its wings. What about you ? A big Question Mark!!!

22.Ask yourself what next ? Don’t sit idle as an idle brain is controlled by the devil to take wrong decision to repent later. Keep yourself busy in constructive activities for Heaven not in destructive activities for Hell. Heaven or Hell ? Choice is yours.

23.Be moderate in all matters by good money management. Neither a spendthrift nor a miser for lifelong prosperity. Prosperity or Poverty ? Choice is yours.

24.Do not ignore your daughters and sisters. They love you beyond limits and their love is next to parents’ love. They are your well-wishers.
Are you their well-wisher ?

25.Walk the talk not talk the walk. Be an example and a role model for others. Hope for the positive results but be prepared to face the negative results. …….to be continued in next issue.

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