Proactive Communications skills

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Believe in yourself, 'Can do attitude.

* Ensure your message is understood.

* Add color by telling a short story

* Interactive sessions with a sense of humour

*Keep it short and simple

* Express your emotions with good gestures and postures

* Use an outline to organise your thoughts before speaking.

*Use active verbs for more power to your communication.

* Your audience judges you on your appearance, Your voice and your message.

* Control your emotions by expressing or suppressing

* Keep yourself up to date with current events

* The body language should agree with your spoken words

* Erect posture projects confidence, leadership and authority

* Dress appropriately to the occasion, public appearance or business meeting

* A smile is the most effective means to establish effective communications

* Be like able for your ideas to be acceptable

* Talk in a language that is acceptable to the listener.

* Be receptive to new ideas as a closed mind is a dying mind.

* Illustrate with personal examples.

* When people around you lose control, be the eye of the storm and attempt to remain cool, calm and quiet

* Maintain a positive self - image. Think about the good things that have happened to you

*Use the magic words for good manners. Thank you, Excuse me, Sorry, Never mind , Please, Pardon.

*Avoid words that hurts other's feelings.

* Handle Disagreements with tact

Don't talk down to the other person.-Treat others as equals. Neither superior nor inferior

A to Z PROACTIVE STUDENT

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer
A - Active - Not Just Active But Proactive
B - Believes In God Almighty
C - Communicates Effectively
D - Devoted And Dedicated
E - Energetic
F - Fearless
G - Gracious
H - High Aim
I - Innovative And Different
J - Judicious
K - Knowledgeable
L - Lively And Lovely
M - Motivated
N - No To Suicides
O - Obedient
P - Punctual
Q - Quick Starter
R - Responsible
S - self- Confident
T - Trustworthy
U - Unselfish
V - Victorious
W - Worthful
X - Xpressive
Y - Yielding
Z - Zealous

LEARN TO FORGET AND FORGIVE

M.M.M.Ahmed,Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Forgiveness is healthier, Stress reliever and peace of mind for you

* The person with whom you are engaged in conflict would either welcome your forgiveness or would forgive you too.

* Forgiveness does not mean excusing bad behaviour.Rather it means that you are prepared to move forward and let go of your bitterness towards the other person.

* If you don't forgive, the emotional weight you carry from the grudge when you think about the conflict increases blood pressure, stress hormones, heart rate, perspiration and muscle tenseness.

* Forgiveness is accepting the things you can't change, changing the things you can.

* You can't change the fact that the conflict occurred, but you can change your response to the conflict.

Adopt The Policy Of Forget And Forgive

CAN YOU ASK YOURSELF?

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* How entrepreneurial are you ?

* Do you know your worth?

* Could you convince someone else to employ you?

* Do you under or over value yourself ?

* What are you most proud of achieving ?

* How relevant and up to date is your knowledge ?

* Who do you benchmark yourself against ?

* How creative do you think you ?

* Do you know the role that you could play in the innovation process ?

* What do you do to maintain good health ?

*What do you do to stay motivated ?

*How disciplined are you about taking regular exercise ?

* How resilient are you ?

* Do you view the world through a positive or a negative optic ?

* What do you do in crisis ?

* Can you make things happen ?

*What one area would you really like to focus on improving ?

Intelligence Lies In The Enthusiasm To Learn New Things

PROGRAMME YOUR BRAIN

M.M.M.,Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

Programme your brain into positive and review the following questions

* What is your mission?

* What is your vision?

* What is your dream?

* What are yoursmart objectives?

* What are the key actions that will help me?

* What is the first things that I am going to do to get started.

* How will you know that you have been successful ?

* Recognize your achievement.

* Review it against your objectives and action plan.

* Plan what you want to do next.

* Start the same process of setting goals and outlining your next smart objectives.

* Celebrate what you have achieved.

There Are 100 Rules To Be a winner. The First Rule Is Think-That You Are A Winner. The Rest 99 Rules Are Nothing.

TEN SPECIAL GIFTS

1. The Gift of wisdom-Respect and aquire knowledge to be wise.

2. The Gift of Vision-Keep on going towards the goal.

3. The Gift of communications-Communicate effectively for win-win deal.

4. The gift of Building Relationships-Improve human relationships.

5. The gift of Positive Thinking-Think differently and value the positive thought process.

6. The Gift of Compassion-Make contributions to the community.

7.The Gift of Self-Belief-Believe in yourself and adopt can do attitude.

8. The Gift of Resilience-Overcome the setbacks and keep going through hard times. Use failure as a stimulus to try again differently.

9. The Gift of Imagination-Use imagination to dream to be proactive, innovative and creative.

10. The Gift of Integrity-The ultimate gift, believe in a value system, honesty and trustworthiness.

Your Best Investment In The World Is Your Child

Message From Minister

I am happy to hear that a speciality periodical aimed at 'PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT" in students is being brought out at monthly interval. Every individual should aim at moulding their personality with some established fundamentals values and it should commence preferably from the onset of Teenage i.e; evolution of a man boyhood. Earlier the student life use to be under close monitoring of both Teachers and Parents. Today neither Teacher at school nor Parent at home has any time to spare for close monitoring of critical social responsibility and I hope it will raise to the occasion, face stiff challenges and comes out successfully

(Mandava Venkateshwara Rao)
MINISTER FOR SCHOOL EDUCATION,
PUBLIC LIBRARIES AND ARCHIVES
GOVERNMENT OF ANDHRA PRADESH
TO

Sri M.M.M.AHMED,
Editor,
PROACTIVE STUDENTS PERSONALITY DEVELOPER

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