Be No.1 By Following A to Z Tips

M.M.M Ahmed,Editor,Proactive Personality Developer
A- Avoid negative thoughts.

B- Believe in yourself.

C- Consider things from every angle.

D- Dont give up.

E- Enjoy today.Yesterday is gone.Tomorrow may not come.

F- Family and friends are hidden treasures.

G- Give more, take less.

H- Hang on to your dreams.

I- Ignore discouragers.

J- Just do it now or never.

K- Keep on trying untill you achieve.

L- Love yourself first and then others.

M- Make it happen.

N- Never lie,cheat,steal.

O- Open your eyes to see real things.

P- Practice makes perfect.

Q- Quitters never win and winners never quit.

R- Read books as closed books never open the mind.

S- Stop procrastinating.

T- Take control of your tongue.

U- Understand yourself first to understand others.

V- Visualize success.

W- Want to be an achiever.

X- Xccelerate your efforts.

Y- You are different from others.

Z- Zealous to be No.1

Enthusiasm-Live While You Are Alive.Don't Die Before You Are Dead.

M.M.M Ahmed,Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

*Nothing great is ever achieved without enthusiasm.

*Enthusiasm and success go hand in hand but enthusiasm comes first.

*Enthusiasm inspires confidence,raises morale,builds loyalty and is priceless.

* Enthusiasm is contagious.You can feel Enthusiasm by the way a person talks,walks or shakes hand.

*Enthusiasm is a habit that one can acquire and practice.

*Enthusiasm and burning desire are required for a change to excellence.

*Water turns into steam with a difference of only one degree in temperature and steam can move some of the biggest engines in the world.That is what enthusiasm helps us to move on in our lives.

*Charles Schwab,An American Steel Maker who was earning a salary of a million dollars a year, was asked if he was paid such a high salary because of his exceptional ability to produce steel.He replied,"I considered my ability to arouse enthusiasm among the men the greatest asset I possess and the way to develop the best that is in a man is by appreciation and encouragement".

*No Enthusiasm * No work * No prosperity * No life

Consequences Of Bad Human Relations.How To Maintain Good Human Relations?

Consequences Of Bad Human Relations

* Lack of Communication * Lack of Trust * Lack of Credibility

* Stress * Irritation *Close-mindedness

* No team spirit * Poor Self-Esteem * Suspicion

* Isolation * Loss Of Productivity * Poor Health

* Distrust * Anger * Prejudice

* Conflict * Frustration * Unhappiness

* Break Down Of Morale * Uncooperative Behaviour

How To Maintain Good Human Relations?

* Forgive yourself and others as you have been forgiven by The Almighty many times.

* Keep your heart open, otherwise your prayers will not be accepted by The Almighty.

* Don’t complain about others. If you can’t change others you change yourself to be proactive not reactive for peaceful, purposeful, positive, powerful and prosperous life.

* Don’t Backbite. Talk directly. If you can’t, be patient. The Almighty will help you.

* You must be the change you wish to see in the world. Peace, Progress And Prosperity.

* Be flexible not rigid for good solution of any problem as you should be a problem-solver not a problem-creator. Aim high as small aim is a crime.

* Take initiative in wishing the people as it improves human relations.

* Talk to like-minded person more and unlike minded person less but don’t break relations

* Respect difference of opinion as everyone has got different way of thinking.

* Replace ego with love as love conquers the whole world without weapons and wars.

* Smile always to attract others’ smile as smile costs nothing, it enriches human relations.

* Avoid anger, control your tongue as it is three inches long yet it can kill a man of six feet.

* Give and take policy for win+win dealings is good for good human relations as human relations are more rewarding than prayers.

Honouring Our Parents

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Parents deserve our love and respect more than any other human on the face of earth.

* They brought us up when we burst into the world naked and with hungry mouths wide open waiting to be fed.

* Parents often sacrifice their own dreams, wealth and often work way beyond the call of duty to ensure that they give their kids the best in this world.

* Parents painstakingly teach their children to live a life good which will eventually mould the child into a pious adult who is a benefit to society and not a burden.

* In this age it is not uncommon to hear tales of some teens rebelling against their parents and completely ignoring the proper etiquette for treating parents.

* This is a real tragedy that could possibly change the face of parent/child relations for centuries to come.

* Both the parents and the children they bear should be vigilant in preserving their bond at any cost and under any circumstances.

* There is only one instance when a child is allowed to be disobedient towards a parent. And that is in the event that the parent tries to lead the child to a wrong way or attempts to force them to commit an evil deed only then can a child disobey a parent.

* However even then the child is still obliged to educate the parents about the good deeds .

* We can find another wife,another husband, another brother, another sister,another relative, another friend, another son and another daughter.But we cannot,cannot and cannot find another parent.

* Respect, obey and serve parent physically by being close and together before it is too late to do.Just offering money is not enough.

* Remember paradise lies under the feet of mother and father is the main door of the paradise.Do not say from hoon to haan to parent even if they are wrong as per Holy Quran.

12 Tips For The Power Of Obedience To Parent

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* The power of obedience to parent takes you to the paradise far away from the hell.

* The power of obedience to parent makes you successful and proactive not reactive in the world.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you a lot of peace of mind .

* The power of obedience to parent gives you a lot of happiness.

* The power of obedience to parent keeps you and your parent healthy.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you respect, fame and wealth.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you good marks and grades in the examinations.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you excellent job with handsome salary.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you a life- partner of your choice.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you obedient children like you.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you higher qualification to make you better human being .

* The power of obedience to parent makes you fearless to go ahead in life and achieve whatever you dream

25 Tips- Never Compare With Each Other

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* The Almighty has created every person different for each other.

* Every person has got strong points and weak points.

* Every person has got opportunities and threats.

* Every person has different swot analysis (SWOT- Strength, weakness, opportunities, threats).

* The Almighty has blessed all persons with different things suitable to them.

* The Almighty is the best Judge to decide what is good and what is bad for any person.

* All persons must thank The Almighty always for what they have and don't complain of what they don't have

* Hence never compare your son with others' son

* Hence never compare your daughter with others' daughter.

* Hence never compare your father with others' father.

* Hence never compare your mother with others' mother.

*Hence never compare your brother with others' brother.

* Hence never compare your wife with others' wife.

*Hence never compare your husband with others' husband.

* Hence never compare your sister with others' sister.

* Hence never compare any person with others.

* Hence never compare your child with others' child.

* Hence never compare your girl with others' girl.

* Hence never compare your boy with others' boy.

* Treat different persons differently without being unfair.

* Praise beats criticism. Praise the person and criticism their bad behaviour.

* If you compare you gain nothing and you spoil yourself and others too.

* Exploit the strong points of persons and convert the weak points to strong points.

* If you compare, bad becomes worse and worse becomes the worst.

* If you don't compare , good becomes better and better becomes the best.

Children Learn What They Live

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

*If a child lives with criticism,he loves to condemn.

*If a child lives with hostility,he learns to fight.

*If a child lives with ridicule,he learns to be shy.

*If a child lives with shame,he learns to feel guilty.

*If a child lives with tolerance,he learns to feel patient.

*If a child lives with encouragement,he learns confidence

*If a child lives with praise,he learns to appreciate.

*If a child lives with fairness,he learns justice.

*If a child lives with security,he learns to have faith.

*If a child lives with approval,he learns to like himself.

*If a child lives with acceptance and friendship,he learns to find love in the world.