Friday, March 5, 2010

12 Tips To Be An Adventurous


M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Evaluate your talents and play to your strength by taking calculated risk.

* Consider risk-taking as a possible opportunity rather than an enterprise that is likely to result in failure.

* Do not let the past rule your life.Develop the confidence to move on and make choices.

* Give yourself credit for everything you try to achieve even if you do not achieve your goal.

* Do not worry if you are not perfect as nobody is perfect.

* You are your own person.Learn to evaluate yourself instead of other people doing it for you.

* Do not try to please everyone at the same time.

* Develop your own standards that are not dependent on the approval of others.

* Do not be afraid of change.Take control of your own life.

* Continual improvement with the ability to accept yourself for what you are is a must.

* Focus on how you feel about your own aspirations rather than the aspirations of others.

* No risk-No gain-Be an adventurous.

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Time Deposit is Money Deposit



M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* If you had a bank that credited your account each morning with $86,400.

* That carried over no balance from day-to-day.

* Allowed you to keep no cash in your account.

* And every evening cancelled whatever part of the amount you had failed to use during the day.

* What would you do?

* Draw out every dollar everyday.

* Of-course you use it to your advantage.

* Well,you have a such bank and its name is Time.

* Every morning it credits you with 86,400 seconds.

* Every night it rules off as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose.

* It carries over no balance.

* It allows no overdrafts.

* If you fail to use the day's deposit, the loss is yours.

* There is no going back.

* There is no drawing against tomorrow.

* It is upto each of us to invest this precious fund of hours, minutes and seconds in order to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success.

* Time is money.As you don't waste money, you must not waste time also.Money will come back but time will not come back.So take care of your precious time.

Saturday, February 13, 2010

12 Tips To Boost Your Self-Confidence


M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Believe that your dreams can come true.

* Set your goals realistic enough that you can achieve them.

* Always expect the best by optimistic approach.

* Take action.Do it now or never.

* Learn something new to be multi-skilled professional.

* Move out of your comfort zone and feel more expansive.

* Celebrate each time you tick off an action step.

* Spend time with someone who believes in you.

* Never give up by doing your best.

* Do what you love and love what you do.

* Boost self-esteem to boost your self-confidence.

* Be happy and contended within yourself to be self-confident.

Friday, February 5, 2010

The ABC of Happiness and Success


M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* A-Attitude-I can do it positive attitude.

* B-Believe in yourself for self-confidence.

* C-Courage-Face problems courageously.

* D-Devotion-Study and work with devotion and dedication.

* E-Enthusiasm is a must for happiness and success.

* F-Fun-Enjoy each moment of life to the maximum extent.

* G-Goal-oriented-Have well-defined goals.

* H-Hard work-Work hard for your dreams.

* I-Improve your knowledge, skills and attitude.

* J-Just do it and be an achiever.

* K-Be kind and it always pays.

* L-Learn lifelong to be multi-skilled professional.

* M-Motivate yourself everyday for possibilities.

* N-Say NO to time-wasting activities.

* O-Observe happy and successful people and follow them.

* P-Plan your future and execute.

* Q-Quitters never win and winners never quit.

* R-Recharge your batteries to achieve your goals.

* S-Seek opportunities for progress and prosperity.

* T-Time is money, don’t waste it.

* U-Understand basic concepts for mastering any subject.

* V-Visualize victory and work towards it.

* W-Strong will power prevails.

* X-Xtra effort gives you an edge over others.

* Y-Yearn for more knowledge and skills.

* Z-Zoom your life towards happiness and success.

Friday, January 29, 2010

How is your unique selling point-USP ?


M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

Answer the following 25 questions.

*Are you good at talking to people face-to-face? Yes or No.

*Are you good at talking to people on the phone? Yes or No.

*Are you good at taking decisions? Yes or No

*Are You good at listening to other people's problems? Yes or No

*Are you good at advising and helping people? Yes or No

*Are you good at persuading people to your point of view? Yes or No

*Are you good at solving intellectual problems? Yes or No

*Are you good at solving practical problems? Yes or No

*Are you good at organising your time and prioritizing your workload? Yes or No

*Are you good at meeting deadlines? Yes or No

*Are you good at designing on paper with your hands or with the aid of computer? Yes or No

*Are you good at building things to someone else's specifications? Yes or No

*Are you good at IT literacy-knowledge of software, hardware and networking? Yes or No

*Are you good at working flexibly within a team? Yes or No

*Are you good at taking responsibility for your own actions and your own work? Yes or No

*Are you good at writing business letters and reports? Yes or No

*Are you good at creative writing? Yes or No

*Are you able to work on your own without supervision? Yes or No

*Are you able to follow instructions given by others? Yes or No

*Are you able to delegate work to others by motivating them? Yes or No

*Are you good at explaining things to other people? Yes or No

*Are you able to pay attention to details? Yes or No

*Are you able to work under pressure? Yes or No

*Are you able to use your own initiatives? Yes or No

*Are you able to learn tasks or assimulate information quickly? Yes or No


Saturday, January 23, 2010

Persistence Is Success Giving Up Is Failure


M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Persistence is a winning ingredient and giving up is a losing ingredient.

* The opposite of persistence is giving up and this is the norm for many people.

* Every invention in our personal lives is the result of persistence.

* Edison made thousands of attempts to produce a light bulb.

* Fleming's discovery of penicillin was due to persistence.

* There are now drugs that not only control but cure cancer.Once again, this is due to persistence.

* The list is endless, but all have been achieved through hundreds of attempts and by getting it wrong until a solution was found.

* There is a difference between stubborn and persistent.

* Being persistent is positive and constructive attempting some new action or a new approach.

* Being stubborn is negative and destructive attempting the same old action and old approach.

* If you want something, whatever it may be, persistence will prevail.

* Be persistent and avoid giving up by mastering rejection.

* Are you persistent?????

Friday, January 15, 2010

Welcome Difficulties Not Welcome To Difficulties



M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Difficulties are blessings.

* Difficulties are opportunities.

* Difficulties are ultimate motivators.

* Difficulties are energizers.

* Difficulties are vitalizers.

* Difficulties are a part of life.

* Difficulties are inspirational.

* Difficulties are inescapable.

* Difficulties make you stronger and more determined.

* Difficulties sharpens your skills and strengthen your nerves.

* Difficulties empower you by re-enforcing your will power.

* Difficulties awaken the giant within you.

* Render difficulties impotent by not being affected by them.

* People are successful only because of difficulties.

* No difficulties-No efforts-No success.