Wednesday, April 30, 2008

SELF- CONFIDENCE SELF-ESTEEM TIPS

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Self- Confidence is essential to develop a good memory power.

* You should believe in your capability of doing things how difficult they may be.

* When you feel you can you know and you deserve. You gain self-confidence.

* Elders should give a patient hearing to the doubts entertained by their children and clear them immediately.

* Self-Esteem is the rock on which the foundation of self-confidence can be laid. This is nothing but respecting yourself,your heal th, your capability to do a thing and lastly your personality.

* You are what you think you are. But first ask yourself, what do you thinkyou are? What are you capable of achieving? What are your hightest limits and greatest potentials? If you are a seed how big is the tree of your achievements?

* Self-Esteem makes self-motivated and ambitious, builds optmistic attitudes and improves perforance.

* Self-Confidence comes from preparation, which is nothing but planning and practicing.
* Winners put Pressure on themselves. That is the pressure of preparing and not worrying and winning.
Total Absence of Shyness with a High Opinion of Oneself


TIPS FOR CONCENTRATION

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Concentration is to put all your efforts and senses to focus on one thing.

* Have definite objectives.

* Do your best to be excellent in everything you do.

* Involve yourself in learning by trying to understand everything. If you do not do not give up. Find out from your Teacher your Parents or your Friends. When you finally understand you will be happy you tried.

* Before reading a lesson for the first time, take out the lesson,make a list of all sub-headings. This will give you a feel about the lesson and how it flows from one topic to another. This will give a meaning to the lesson you are about to read.

* The most effective studies can be done in an environment where there is no distraction. There can be many sources of distraction but the greatest one is your own thoughts. You can meditate to calm your thoughts down.

* The place where you sit to study is the single most critical factor. It must be cut off from other distractions.

* Library is a good place to study. The study atmosphere makes it even more motivating to study.

* Debate is masculine but conversation is feminine.

Concentration Is Intensive Mental Effort

TIPS FOR MOTIVATION

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Motivation is the inner urge that makes a person to act with a sense of purpose.

* It is important for you to realize that you are studying for your own future.

* Understand the purpose of your study.

* Ask questions and seek answers in everything you study.

* Ambition is the guiding force whoch motivates you to study better. Reframe your ambition today- High aim to be the best (Small aim is a crme as per our president APJ Abdul Kalam)

* Do not get discouraged by people who laugh at you. Do not share your ambition with everyone. Every morning you get up from your bed, think intensely of your targeted goal-make it so irresistible that you will have to get up.

* An ambition motivates you to study harder. Make a positive change- that is the fuel that drives you.

* An ambition has a magnetic effect. It attracts you to itself. Every day you can access untapped sources of enthusiasm by thinking of your goal in life alone

* I hear, I forget I see.I remember.I do, I understand.

Motivation is Essence of Success



AUTO SUGGESTIONS TIPS

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* I Believe In God Almighty.

* I Like Myself.

* I Like My Parent.

* I Like My Family.

* I Like My Neighbours.

* I Like My Friends.

* I Like My Teachers.

* I Like My School/College.

* I Like My Subjects.

* I Like My Home Work.

* I Like My Result ( Whatever It My Be).

* I Don't Expect Everyone To Be Like Me.

* I Forget And Forgive.

* I Smile And Let Everyone To Smile.

* I Thank Almighty For Every Breath Which Gives Me A New Life Full of Happiness.

* An ounce practice is thousand times better than tons and tons of speech

Positive Thoughts- Positive Changes- Positive Actions

POSITIVE STUDY POWER

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* I can Now Read Perfectly

* I can Now Write Perfectly.

* I can Now Menorize Perfectly.

* I can Now Make Notes Perfectly.

* I can Now Do My Home Work Perfectly.

* Now I Am Confident And Enthusiastic that I can Write My Examination Perfectly.

* I am Positive And Optimist Now that I can Pass My Examinations with 100% Marks.


* I am Always Safer and I can Always Think of Becoming Great.

* I am Really Smart And I believe In.

* I can Study Smarter Rather than Harder.

* I am an Act-Now person.

* I am a Topper.

* Every day in my studies I am getting better,better and better.

* Every thing is comming to me easily and comfortably.

* Whatever I Read or hear I can easily remember and reproduce it.

Think like a man of action and act like a man of thought

SUCCESS SECRETS TIPS


M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Regular and Special Prayers

* High Aim
( Small Aim is a Crime as per president APJ Abdul Kalam)

* Inspiration and Motivation

* Proactive Planning

* Targeted Goal

* Firm Determination

* Devotion and Dedication

* Working Smarter Rather than Harder.

* Creative and Analytical Mind.

* Self-Esteem and Self-Confidence.

* Innovative and Different Presentation.

* Discipline.

* Diplomacy.

* Balanced Diet.

* Regular Aerobic Exercise.

* Time Management.

* Sleep Management.

* Health Management.

* I Can Do Attitude

* You are what you think.

Obey The Parents and Respect The Teachers


Tuesday, April 22, 2008

How Important is Self- Grooming?


M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer


* If you price yourself like a Mercedes you must also look like a Mercedes.


* You must dress for where you want to be rather than where you are.


* If you want to be taken seriously, you must take care of how you dress.


*Self - grooming not only includes appearance but also posture, body language and etiquette.


* Clothes must be ironed, shoes must be polished and hair must be neatly combed.


* The best way is to dress conservative for both men and women.


* The way you dress is your personal brand and you are the face of your family, your company and your country.


* How you present yourself at an interview or at a meeting, how you walk, how you stand, how you sit, how you communicate and how you conduct yourself matters a great deal today.


* Dress to kill.


* First impression is the last impression.