Honouring Our Parents

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Parents deserve our love and respect more than any other human on the face of earth.

* They brought us up when we burst into the world naked and with hungry mouths wide open waiting to be fed.

* Parents often sacrifice their own dreams, wealth and often work way beyond the call of duty to ensure that they give their kids the best in this world.

* Parents painstakingly teach their children to live a life good which will eventually mould the child into a pious adult who is a benefit to society and not a burden.

* In this age it is not uncommon to hear tales of some teens rebelling against their parents and completely ignoring the proper etiquette for treating parents.

* This is a real tragedy that could possibly change the face of parent/child relations for centuries to come.

* Both the parents and the children they bear should be vigilant in preserving their bond at any cost and under any circumstances.

* There is only one instance when a child is allowed to be disobedient towards a parent. And that is in the event that the parent tries to lead the child to a wrong way or attempts to force them to commit an evil deed only then can a child disobey a parent.

* However even then the child is still obliged to educate the parents about the good deeds .

* We can find another wife,another husband, another brother, another sister,another relative, another friend, another son and another daughter.But we cannot,cannot and cannot find another parent.

* Respect, obey and serve parent physically by being close and together before it is too late to do.Just offering money is not enough.

* Remember paradise lies under the feet of mother and father is the main door of the paradise.Do not say from hoon to haan to parent even if they are wrong as per Holy Quran.

12 Tips For The Power Of Obedience To Parent

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* The power of obedience to parent takes you to the paradise far away from the hell.

* The power of obedience to parent makes you successful and proactive not reactive in the world.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you a lot of peace of mind .

* The power of obedience to parent gives you a lot of happiness.

* The power of obedience to parent keeps you and your parent healthy.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you respect, fame and wealth.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you good marks and grades in the examinations.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you excellent job with handsome salary.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you a life- partner of your choice.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you obedient children like you.

* The power of obedience to parent gives you higher qualification to make you better human being .

* The power of obedience to parent makes you fearless to go ahead in life and achieve whatever you dream

25 Tips- Never Compare With Each Other

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* The Almighty has created every person different for each other.

* Every person has got strong points and weak points.

* Every person has got opportunities and threats.

* Every person has different swot analysis (SWOT- Strength, weakness, opportunities, threats).

* The Almighty has blessed all persons with different things suitable to them.

* The Almighty is the best Judge to decide what is good and what is bad for any person.

* All persons must thank The Almighty always for what they have and don't complain of what they don't have

* Hence never compare your son with others' son

* Hence never compare your daughter with others' daughter.

* Hence never compare your father with others' father.

* Hence never compare your mother with others' mother.

*Hence never compare your brother with others' brother.

* Hence never compare your wife with others' wife.

*Hence never compare your husband with others' husband.

* Hence never compare your sister with others' sister.

* Hence never compare any person with others.

* Hence never compare your child with others' child.

* Hence never compare your girl with others' girl.

* Hence never compare your boy with others' boy.

* Treat different persons differently without being unfair.

* Praise beats criticism. Praise the person and criticism their bad behaviour.

* If you compare you gain nothing and you spoil yourself and others too.

* Exploit the strong points of persons and convert the weak points to strong points.

* If you compare, bad becomes worse and worse becomes the worst.

* If you don't compare , good becomes better and better becomes the best.

Children Learn What They Live

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

*If a child lives with criticism,he loves to condemn.

*If a child lives with hostility,he learns to fight.

*If a child lives with ridicule,he learns to be shy.

*If a child lives with shame,he learns to feel guilty.

*If a child lives with tolerance,he learns to feel patient.

*If a child lives with encouragement,he learns confidence

*If a child lives with praise,he learns to appreciate.

*If a child lives with fairness,he learns justice.

*If a child lives with security,he learns to have faith.

*If a child lives with approval,he learns to like himself.

*If a child lives with acceptance and friendship,he learns to find love in the world.

Twelve Tips For Early Promotion

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Project positive Energy - Do not be the one to criticize the boss. Be a motivator: the person everyone wants to be around.

* Be Dependable - Do what you say you are going to do. Better yet under- promise and over-deliver.

* Make your Boss look Good - Finish your work on time and with a high level of professionalism. Bring your boss ideas and implement them.

* Own up - Take responsibility for your mistakes by focusing on what you have learned rather than what you have done wrong.

* Be organized - Plan your next day before you leave work. Rank your tasks urgency and importance.

* Be punctual - Arriving for work or meeting on time (even early) shows that you are enthusiastic, dependable and that you are able to manage your life effectively.

* Be Resourceful- Do not run to the boss with every question you have or setback you encounter. Think things through first. If you must repeat a problem to the boss, develop possible solutions to present to him.

* Broaden your horizons – Apply these tips to show that you are keen to learn and show how you are developing skills and pushing against the boundaries of your job role.

* Stay Informed – keep abreast of company trends. Stay up to date with current trends and knowledge advances in your area.Upgrade your skills and learn new ones.

* Be Courteous – Show respect and loyalty to your boss and a speak well of him to others.Do not bad mouth him to any one.

* Be Flexible – Change is inevitable.Companies need people who can adapt and go with the flow.

* Be A Team Player – Show your boss and colleagues that you have their best interests at heart by being empathetic and offering to help out when they need it.

Ten Tips To Beat Procrastination

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

* Visualize the outcome. Picture the benefits of completing your task. Imagine how good you'll feel once it's done.

* Turn off the TV and Internet. These are two of the greatest time-wasters. Unplug them until you've finished your task.

* Just do it for 10 minutes. It's usually far easier to start something you know will only go on for 10 minutes. Then, Once you've started it,you'll tend to work on for longer.

* Let go of perfectionism. If you're putting off starting a job because you want to get it perfect, set aside this goal and forge ahead as if your aim is to do it imperfectly. You can always improve it later.

* Constant reminders. Set a timer to go off, say, every hour as you're working, so you can stay aware of how fast time is passing.

* Make it fun. Do the most(or least painful) part of the task first. This will get you into the swing of it.

* Catch yourself procrastinating. Watch for the moment when you first put off a task. If you can resist that first impulse to delay, it's far easier trying to fight it later. Resisting procrastination can also become a habit.

* Do you secretly like procrastinating? Are you addicted to the rush of completing a task just in time?If you are,try giving yourself just a little bit more time by creating your own deadline, which is earlier than the real one,so that you have a margin of safety. Get into the habit of starting a project as early as you can, rather than as late you dare.

* Accept mistakes as inevitable. Fear of making a mistake can deter you from making a start on a new task. Remind yourself that mistakes are a natural , unavoidable part of life that could ultimately teach you how to do something better.

* Should you really be doing the task? Sometimes procrastination can be a subconscious sign that you want to avoid the activity altogether(beyond sheer laziness). Re-assess whether you really want or need to perform the task.

Twelve Tips To Be Good Communicators

M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer

*Good communicators are self-confident people who have good self-esteem.

*Good communicators are people who believe they are worth being listened to.

*Good communicators are people who like to hear the views and opinions of others.

*Good communicators are able to both take and give criticism without feeling hurt.

*Good communicators are assertive people who are able to express themselves without getting angry.

*Good communicators are people who encourage others to express their feelings .

* Good communictors are people who have the ability to understand others.

* Good communicators plan how to interact with the other persons.

* Good communicators have a greater awareness of other people.

* Good communicators are more sensitive towards their emotions and attitudes.

* Good communicators carefully observe other people.

* Good communicators have a greater self-Knowledge.