Saturday, November 20, 2010

15 Tips to Beat the Ego to Beat the Pride


M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

•Ego means I am more important than others and what I believe is true.

•Ego means my point of view is more important than that of others so I am trapped within my point of view and I become arrogant and stubborn.

•When ego prevails in my mind, I begin to compete with everyone for everything, no matter what the cost. I do not see beyond self-gratification.

•Ego means I am right, others are wrong. I am perfect , others are not perfect.

•Ego means I don’t commit any mistakes and others do commit mistakes.

•Ego means I know everything and others know nothing.

•Ego means I can challenge anybody and nobody can challenge me.

•Ego means I can do whatever I want and others cannot do whatever they want.

•Ego means I am independent and I don’t depend on others but others are dependant, They depend on me. They cant do anything without me.

•Ego means I am powerful, Might is right but others are powerless.

•Ego means I am self-established and others are not self-established.

•Ego means I don't wish others and I expect others to wish me first

•Drop the “ I ” and live in the “ We ” to be happy and let others be happy to beat ego as ego leads to pride and pride kisses the ground.

•The best way to get rid of ego is start taking initiative in wishing others with a wonderful smile.

•All ego,pride and self-boasting are for The Almighty-The Creator not for the human-beings- the creatures.

Sunday, October 31, 2010

Why Should You Visit This Website?



M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* This website is new, creative and different from other websites with interesting pictures like a story book to develop personality by enjoying reading.

* Dream big like Dr. Shah Faisal-IAS Topper with two crowns MBBS and IAS as small dream is a crime. Transform your dream into reality.

* Short and sweet tips easy to understand and practice to improve English to be presentable in this corporate world during globalisation period.

* Knowledge is a necessity but personality development is a must.

* Personality development is as important as scoring high marks to face the different rounds of interviews required for the jobs of multinational companies, civil services and all competitive examinations for success.

* Personality development is required wherever students go throughout the world for higher education, overseas jobs, assignments and projects.

* This website is inspirational and motivational for engineers, doctors, professionals, businessmen, housewives and retired persons also.

* Now-a-days 30% students are employable and remaining 70% students are unemployable due to lack of personality development. This website makes them employable after developing their personality and employability.

* This website develops the personality of the students physically, mentally, intellectually, emotionally, spiritually for self-control and to be self-established for self-satisfaction by working smarter rather than harder.

* This website makes the students open minded not fixed minded during this period of fast developments, changes, cut-throat competitions and survival of the fittest and never, never, never give up . No Hope-No Success.

* This website inspires and motivates to be happy and let others to be happy by being proactive not reactive. Always smile and say no to depression.

* This website increases not only intelligence quotient (IQ) but also increases emotional quotient (EQ) to be healthy, wealthy and wise.

* Closed websites never open the mind. Cultivate the habit of reading.

* Winners don’t do different things, they do things differently.

* Students have got bachelor degrees and master degrees but they don’t have jobs due to lack of personality development and proper career planning.

* Students don’t have communication skills, inter-personal skills and presentation skills due to lack of personality development.

* Seeking and spreading the knowledge pleases The Almighty to be rewarded.

* This website can be introduced to students to be achievers, newly married couples for happy married life and senior citizens for peace of mind and happiness.

* This website is evergreen and useful for you, your children, even for your grand children and future generations.

* This website is not for profit but for social service to spread the good message across the world for a better change.

How to Use This Website

* This website increases vocabulary, fluency, speaking power without hesitation, stage fear and inhibition to develop personality by three steps.

* Step-1 Read the website and understand by referring dictionary if the meaning is not known to increase vocabulary for better understanding.

* Step-2 Read the website loudly as many times as possible to memorize and gain fluency to become powerful speaker to be a winner.

* Step-3 Speak out in front of a mirror with actions to avoid stage fear, hesitation and inhibition to develop personality by being fearless.

* This website can be taught as a non-detailed subject once in a week during personality development classes in schools, colleges and institutes or self study by students at home like a story book as a good hobby.

* It is better that every student has one downloaded copy of this website as a reference for his/her all-round personality development to face the challenges of life and to avoid suicide by being hard-working, honest, hopeful, happy and helpful.

Friday, October 15, 2010

The Profile of M.M.M Ahmed, Editor, Proactive Personality Developer (Transforming Dreams into Reality)


M.M.M.Ahmed(Mohammed Masood Mohiuddin Ahmed) did his B.Tech. from University College of Technology, Osmania University, Hyderabad. He was trained in Aramco’s Management, Principles and Techniques of Instruction in Saudi Arabia. He worked as a Trainer at the Desalination Training Centres of Saudi American Oil Company, Mitsubishi Japanese Company and Saline Water Conversion Corporation-The largest Desalination Plan in the world. He got an opportunity to work with different foreigners- Americans, British, Canadians, Japanese and Koreans.
He trained many trainees and they are working successfully at different desalination plants throughout the kingdom of Saudi Arabia. His excellent Accomplishments and efforts for inspiring and motivating the trainees were highly appreciated by the Training Centres’ Management.
He enjoyed the training and the trainee enjoyed the learning as it was interesting, innovative, creative and interactive. He gained good experience in training profession which gave him an insight into the minds of students.
Now it has become the cherished desire of the editor to give all-round personality development, spoken English and communication skill to the students throughout the world through his Books, Blog and Articles as he feels that it is his social responsibility to guide them; for he believes that
Seeking and spreading the knowledge pleases The Almighty.
My blog material can be used for the personality development classes to be conducted for the students once in a week as:
Knowledge is a Necessity but Personality Development is a Must.
Free click blog: www.proactivepersonality.blogspot.com for short and sweet tips on different topics to develop personality and improve english to become a powerful speaker. The tips can be downloaded throughout the world, copied and distrubuted among students free of cost to make them successful.
Quadaria Social transformation movement for Happy, Successful and Peaceful life
M.M.M.Ahmed has written 3 books
1. Proactive Student’s Personality Development Tips
2. 250 Proactive Life-Transformation Thoughts
3. Tips to Score more Marks in S.S.C Board Examination
• Mission - To write personality development tips as the ink of a scholar is more sacred than the blood of a martyr.
• Vision - To develop the overall personality of every person throughout the world to be rewarded by The Almighty.
• Dream - To be happy and let others to be happy for good health and harmony by being proactive not reactive
Give the world the best you have and the better than the best will come back to you- Do it now or never.
Be proactive-initiate the change actively in anticipation of future developments rather than merely reacting to events as they occur.
copyright is free. Enjoy the joy of giving.
This is my Social Service. Please remember me in your prayers.
Email Proactive.student@yahoo.co.in

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Twelve Reasons To Do MBA


M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer


* Now-a-days most of the companies prefer MBAs instead of degree students to develop in the corporate sector as team leaders.

* To develop motivation skills, problem solving skills, communication skills, presentation skills and inter-personal skills.

* To conduct seminars, group discussions, role playing, management meets, paper presentations, business quiz and guest lectures.

* MBA students get good opportunities in the world as India is developing economically and getting good positions in world wide multi-national companies.

* To develop co-ordinating and integrating skills with confidence from all the departments and people.

* To develop personality to be more confident, organised and capable of planning both for short and long term to be a successful entrepreneur as MBA has its own face value in all ways.

* To gain more practical knowledge than books, a non-MBA is not so strong in decision making and strategies. The theoretical and practical knowledge help you to become a good practitioner in your profession.

* With the help of case discussions, team work, team spirit, class discussions, industrial tours and visits, you will have confidence in solving any problem successfully with dynamism.

* The MBA course structure itself trains you in all the ways with mental discipline to make you a leader to lead successfully for a managerial role.

* An MBA helps in maintaining good interpersonal relations, endless discussions, case studies, group projects and constant interactions with batch mates compels even the most reserved person to open up.

* An MBA course compels one to increase general awareness and keep abreast of the latest trends particularly in economics and business.

* An MBA helps to develop an application-oriented approach, awareness of human relations and sensitivity to man management and a vision of the future.

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Students - Victims of Peer Pressure



M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Peer pressure is a vital factor in shaping up of an individual's personality and is an essential part of learning experience.

* Peer pressure is a social problem and a significant part of college life.

* The question is how does one make the best out of one's peers and manage the pressure that comes with it.

* The causes of peer pressure are alcohol, drugs, smoking, fashion, food habits, academics, partying and live-in relationships.

* Under-aged students over drink to the point where ambulances are caused for emergencies.

* A few students are unable to handle the sudden freedom they are provided at hostels after they have lived with their parents.

* Students try to fit into peers culture and leave what they have been taught back home by parents and do what their friends at campus do.

* The best way to fight peer pressure is to stay firm on who you are, what you believe in and what you stand for. Just because it is fun and everyone does it need not make it right.

* Immune yourself to peer pressure. Do not compromise your values, it is helpful to speak to a trusted grown up person if you feel you are being pushed into an undesirable situation.

* Avoid the trigger situation and the peer pressure will subside.

* If your so-called group of friends do not respect your values, they are probably not worth it.

* You are lucky, if you have good friends. You are unlucky, if you have bad friends. A person is known by his/her friends.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

25 Tips To Be A Successful Enterpreneur



M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

* Associate with good people to share the knowledge and experience.

* You never need to cheat to win.

* What is right is more important than who is right.

* You can get what you want in life if you help other people get what they want.

* Success occurs when opportunity and preparation meet.Seize the opportunity when it knocks.

* It is not who you know that counts, it is who knows you.

* Ambition is the fuel that can drive life-changing events.

* You and your spouse are a team act like one by understanding each other.

* Create a big dream as you will never achieve more than you think you can.Small dream is a crime.

* Never let your expenses outstrip your revenue.

* Making a profit is always a necessity if you want to stay in business.

* As an entrepreneur, the secret to success is cash,cash and cash.

* Take care of your customers and create a motivating environment for your people.Without them you have no company.

* Dont create a company of ducks.Let your people soar like eagles to deliver superior customer service.

* Working people today want a partnership relationship to work better.

* Everyone should be encouraged to be a leader by empowering them to relieve you to do everything yourself.

* Good relationships at work and at home are important for prosperity.

* Keep your priorities in order.First thing first.

* Balance your work and family life for better results.

* Seek the wisdom of your mentors continually.

* The wrong leader can send you in wrong direction you dont want to go.

* The right leader at the right time can send you in the right direction.

* Giving can be much more rewarding than taking.

* Be generous with your wealth, time and talent to live a happy and fulfilled life.

* Many entrepreneurs go out of business because they don't know how to manage thier money.

Sunday, July 4, 2010

You Are Healthy But Tired Always--Why?



M.M.M.Ahmed, Editor,Proactive Personality Developer

Can you answer the following questions?

* Is your family life happy? Yes or No

* Do you enjoy your work? Yes or No

* Is your profession useful for the society? Yes or No

* Are you successful in your career? Yes or No

* Is it possible for you to achieve your high aims? Yes or No

* Can you be happy after a failure or depression or bitter experience? Yes or No

* Do you give importance to you and your work? Yes or No

* Are you satisfied after doing your work the best possible way? Yes or No

* Do you care your body, mind and soul? Yes or No

* Do you thank The Almighty for his countless blessings you enjoy? Yes or No

* Can you forget your work when you are on vacation or during sleeping hours? Yes or No

* Do you enjoy financial freedom? Yes or No

* Do people enjoy your company? Yes or No

* Do you enjoy people's company? Yes or No

* Can you make strangers your friends? Yes or No

* Do you have good human relations? Yes or No

* Do you get enough love and affection from your family and friends? Yes or No

If the answers of the above questions are "Yes", you are healthy and active always.

If the answers of the above questions are "No", you are healthy but tired always due to negative psychological effects.